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postr/StutterJul 1, 2021
34 points

Need help/advice with stuttering and my life.

Need help/advice with stuttering and my life. Basically stuttering has ruined my life. I am 24 years old. I have been isolating myself for the past 6 years after high school. I didn't go to college be...

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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2021
10 points

Never heard of disability accomdations, but I feel for you and know your frustration, I'm 58 and had a lifetime of this, my stutter had ruled, or should I say ruined my life, I'd be a completel...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2021
3 points

I have been to the EXACT same situation. It seems you've been through some panic attack. When the same event (presenting my dissertation) happened to me forced me to abandon everything and went throug...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2021
7 points

I feel you. But to be honest, hitting rock bottom and hitting that super low spot was what allowed me to change my life when I look in the rear view. Do you know what changed from the time you spo...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2021
1 points

This is the main reason why my life has took such a drastic dive. Im almost in tears typing this. If it werent for the name saying id be okay. I don't want to be in a relationship because of this, I a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2021
1 points

I am not sure. Definetly, it was an handicap. When you want to say something and that your own body doesn't let you do it, it's an horrible feeling. On the other hand, it has also pushed me to try t...

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commentr/StutterJun 22, 2021
2 points

First of all it is definitely going to affect your life in various ways. So I think acceptance of that is important in being able to manage it....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2021
13 points

I highly recommend you look into Avoidance Reduction Therapy and also do a group session for speech therapy if you can. There’s so many successful people who stutter and you just can’t allow it to dic...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2021
3 points

I'm definitely guilty of making decisions based on my stutter but I also know it's the *view* of stuttering that's the problem and not the stuttering itself. I see you mentioned you were 20 (21 here)....

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2021
29 points

You're fooling yourself. The only thing stopping you is you. Not your stutter....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2021
3 points

I can agree on some level. Not so much annoyed but like “you have the ability and hate it!?” Like a special gift they don’t wanna use. I recently realized my fear of public speaking isn’t the same a...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2021
4 points

Lol this analogy is so stupid. Exercise is something we have control over. Speech is not something we have control over. It doesn’t work like that....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2021
15 points

I feel the same. I have said "No" to many opportunites, opportunities which are life changing. I'm 20 years old and this is the perfect time to say "Yes" to every opportunity I get, but I cannot simpl...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2021
37 points

This is so true, I'm 58 and it's effected my whole life choices, esp my jobs I have had, the career I wanted I could never have so ended up in low pay dead end jobs.. I still regret it now.....

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Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 20, 2021
81 points

sometimes I think that if I were not stuttering how much I would achieve in life

sometimes I think that if I were not stuttering how much I would achieve in life ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencySeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2021
3 points

This. I'm so annoyed when people in my class don't ask any questions, especially for guest lectures that usually are really interesting. So I power through my stutter and ask away, only to find out th...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2021
2 points

Our goal should be functioning members of society. It's certainly a cross to bear that others have no idea the suffering we go through, yet we can't run away from our problem and hope it resolves its...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJun 17, 2021
10 points

I am already 22 and my stutter is getting worse.

I am already 22 and my stutter is getting worse. It gets worse when I openly have to do a medical report. I cannot say the names of some medicines without stuttering and sometimes I cannot even say it...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2021
3 points

I am not offended at all. Thank you. You are 100 percent right, I have met a handfull of people in sscmiddleeast, it's a programme similar to the Mcguire in Saudi Arabia Who had a severe stutter but...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2021
3 points

1) Reach out for therapy (speech and emotional) at the school, even student therapy programs. 2) DO NOT avoid responsibilities and life. Stop procrastinating, deflecting, and lying to avoid situations...

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