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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2022
1 points

It's alot more embarrassing to be a drunk than a stutterer. Even if you don't drink large amounts or everyday you can easily get addicted without realizing it. Than your stutter is the least of your p...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2022
1 points

Negative experience with it. I went in elementary school and it was the root cause of my bullying, and the speech therapist herself was extremely rude and patronizing. I’ve made peace with my stutte...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2022
4 points

Not for me, at the age of I think 9, a woman sat me down and said "You're going to have this your whole life. There's no fixing it" it felt like a punch to the gut. I just gave up. I guess I'm a bit b...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterJun 1, 2022
22 points

Realization

Realization I’m 18 and just got a job where communication is the number one factor. And I realized how bad my stutter effects me. Whenever I’m talking with customers, I just pause for no reason to sto...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2022
6 points

Last time it just made me feel stupid and ashamed of myself because despite all the money my parents spent and effort I put in I made zero improvement. It was just embarrassing. My stutter is way wor...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentTherapy ExperiencesUnhelpful Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2022
2 points

Im from Pakistan too. So the thing is i started stuttering in my second year of inter which I dont find any reason as my therapist asks if is there an event happened. So at start it was so hard to cop...

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postr/StutterMay 30, 2022
14 points

stuttering and dating

stuttering and dating The last couple of dates I've been the person I was going out with said they thought my stutter was "cute", I don't have the fact that I stutter in my dating profile so they didn...

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commentr/StutterMay 30, 2022
2 points

That's really interesting, I never heard it put like that before. My stutter is overt so yeah communication at a very basic level is difficult, but also my goal is trying to avoid being laughed at/peo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2022
2 points

I must admit I have found self disclosure to be a very painful experience. My stammer is pretty much orientated around blocks and avoidances…or at least that is how it used to be…for me stammering has...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2022
2 points

yeah, i’ve mentioned it after stuttering in social situations and it often just gave me comfort for myself. i had suuuuch a weird experience in a job interview where the interviewer just teased every ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2022
5 points

Yeah quiet a few people do that. Sometimes they just change the topic and ignore what you said. You grow a thick skin after a while. But deep down i guess it does hurt for a couple of seconds. I...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
postr/StutterMay 28, 2022
0 points

I keep asking the same fucking question in subrettits where girs guve advice to guys but nobody responds to me!

I keep asking the same fucking question in subrettits where girs guve advice to guys but nobody responds to me! I hate when people ghost me irl or online. I keep asking if stuttering is unattractive a...

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Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2022
2 points

Thanks for asking :) well this one woman came up to me in awe over my hair but once she asked my name I couldn’t get it out. She slowly put her hand down for me to shake and it was one of the worst fe...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2022
5 points

The embarrassment is mainly from myself lol. My friends are actually really nice about it but i always feel like a burden when it happens...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterMay 27, 2022
35 points

I’m upset

I’m upset I know the logic here isn’t totally flawed but I don’t think it is… I’m a (27m) with no major health conditions in my family or with myself. I am fairly in shape, I don’t drink a lot, I do...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2022
5 points

Wow that’s awesome. Can’t say I have positive experiences from stuttering but that’s mainly because I’ve never tried to see it as positive. But maybe I’ve been missing some positive moments due to emb...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2022
1 points

Well I read his book and it didn’t sit well with me. To each their own. If it helps you, that’s fucking awesome! It didn’t help me though and tbh made me feel worse about myself....

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
2 points

Man, reading this has encouraged me to try to get away from writing things down so much. I get what you mean about it being so much less embarrassing than stuttering really badly in front of people, s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
1 points

My lisp and stutter is so bad that I don’t want to talk again. If I really want to talk, I have to talk very slow and loud before the words are heard clearly. I hate it here....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
10 points

Dude I absolutely hated ordering at restaurants. Usually my dad would look at me in this judging way while I would block for 5-10 seconds. The feelings of embarrassment and shame were so palpable. Som...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride