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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
1 points

you mean openly ask her how she feels about my stutter? cuz i don't try to hide it or anything...i'm usually very open about my speech. and if i were to ask her how she actually felt, not sure how tha...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
5 points

yeah, i totally had similar stuff happen from graduate school to the present. it may help to discuss this openly with her. i found that once i told people what was going on things didn't feel as weird...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2019
2 points

Should I mention to my interviewer that I do have a stutter? I don’t want them to think I’m incapable of doing the job, but at the same time I don’t want to catch them off guard....

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2019
2 points

Did you tell your boss/interviewer that you had a stutter? Mines somewhat mild-moderate and I can hide it fairly well. But I do have moments of blockage and pauses....

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2019
5 points

I have a weird thing. Most times I can control my speech to like 95% fluency. But on the phone it drops to like 60%. One of the words I cannot say when in control of my speech at 95% fluency, is "I st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2019
6 points

Did you say you had a stutter? I had to make a claim on the insurance and was told I was breaking up. Told then I stuttered. They apologised and asked me to continue. Didn’t interrupt after that. Real...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2019
1 points

I chose to speak to raise awareness for stuttering. The class I spoke in was literally “Fluency Disorders” so. The professor wanted me to show the future SLPs who we are...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersResearch & ResourcesMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2019
1 points

Out of curiosity cause iv been intrested in talking in front of a group about my stutter. Why are you speaking?...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2019
2 points

I actually quite like it when people acknowledge my stutter (in a nice/curious way). It's really weird when it's this massive thing for me, that's obviously so noticable to everyone else, yet everyon...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2019
2 points

Just listen... Like you would (should) with any other person you're having a conversation with. Everyone likes to be listened to, stutterers are no different. Personally, I hate it when people finish...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyListener ReactionsDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterOct 27, 2019
4 points

A piece of advice for you.

A piece of advice for you. Yo. I keep hearing how hard it is for us stutters to date. From stuttering, to lack of confidence, anxiety, to not knowing how to make someone understand. Well. Lucky for yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2019
2 points

Tell them you stutter, because they might think you are really nervous....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2019
3 points

How did you feel the interviews went? What kind of jobs are you going for? I have always found that being open about my stutter and the effect it has on my work is a good way to start an interview. ...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2019
1 points

Thank you, I will consider do this from now on. If you don't mind answering, what is your area of work? Sometimes I worry not only about getting the job, but also about the activities I might have to ...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2019
2 points

I do outside sales. Lots of cold calling and meetings Landed the job because the hiring manager admired the “grit” I have despite my speech impediment. I was open and upfront about it during the inte...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2019
1 points

I accepted that its a part of me and if people will come into my life i tell them what it is and how they can cope with it and what they shouldnt do. Its nothing to be ashamed about and if people know...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2019
15 points

I think it helps to acknowledge it for what it is. I sometimes tell people about my stuttering when I first meet them. It addresses the elephant in the room and makes me feel easier about it. I have a...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2019
11 points

I stutter worst on the phone. So, when I started my last job, I was honest with them. "Most times, you won't notice my stutter, but when I'm on the phone, I block badly."...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2019
5 points

I have a stutter and I say it, it kinda breaks the ice and makes it less of a scary thing you gotta walk on egg shells around. If a non stutterer said it I would prolly be offended. Don’t. This is com...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2019
2 points

It should be a topic of discussion from the get go. I think what did it was that you waited for so long AND it was a rocky point in the relationship, bad mixture. Yo. Dude. Don’t let it get to you. If...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance