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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2020
1 points

Focusing on being calm sounds like setting yourself up for failure. I agree with the other poster, focus instead knd the conversation and interaction....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJul 29, 2020
9 points

Small victories

Small victories Today I had to go to a doctors appointment alone. I usually get a lot of anxiety doing this but before I went in I told myself seriously jordan, this shit doesn’t matter. Stop taking...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2020
5 points

Exactly. I focus on the person and the conversation....not my stutter and that has yielded positive results...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2020
1 points

Tough spot to be in but a simple solution. I was in the same situation except my flared back up in university and hit me like a slap in the face. There is something in your life that put more tensio...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightMindset shiftHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 29, 2020
103 points

I just asked a random stranger for a wifi password!

I just asked a random stranger for a wifi password! I know it sounds really insignificant but my stutter had really made me avoid meeting and talking to new people so Im really hyped that I did that!!...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2020
3 points

Thank you! I always tell her talking is now exercisise. You have to keep doing it to get better, but you also need rest between sets. We'll keep pushing....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2020
8 points

This is probably one of the best post I’ve read so far in this community. What happened to her is shit, no other way to call it, but damn is she a strong person that she’s already speaking in public; ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2020
3 points

It's hard to say anything general and simple that will necessarily work well for everyone, I think. But yeah, that's the gist of it. We know we stutter sometimes, but we try to carry on regardless. I...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2020
1 points

so, looks like the best approach is to notice that you will stutter soon on some worlds and continue with these worlds and do the best to say it smoothly...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2020
7 points

Ok that's literally me, I'm a pro karate player and a stutterer who don't give a fuck about what people think on my stutter. I like to talk to people whether I stutter doing so or not, I don't care, b...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2020
0 points

Don’t call my “theory” retarded when it doesn’t deal with your type of stutter. U call it stupid and all when people literally got there’s cured and live way better now. Don’t comment stupid shit tryi...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2020
2 points

I feel you and it really sucks. I'm sorry. I have experienced the same growing up and it isn't fun In my experience, the harder you don't accept it or fight it the worse the stutter is. Once I accept...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2020
1 points

Wow you seem very self aware to realize your stutter going up and down based on your emotional state. Most people can see that but they still reach out to learn techniques. You said you've been down t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2020
2 points

Thank you for your feedback. Yea this shit is confusing. But I feel like if I had some sort of amnesia and forgot I had this speech block, I probably wouldn’t have to deal with it. Idk though. I will ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2020
6 points

I'm not an expert, but in my opinion, just forget about it it will pass. Maybe it's just the stress or something like that the more you think about it the more you'll get bad habits that are hard to d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionCycles & RandomnessMindset shift
postr/StutterJul 22, 2020
85 points

I've been wanting to be a manager for 3 years now, today I finally got it.

I've been wanting to be a manager for 3 years now, today I finally got it. I work at HEB, a Texas grocery store. I started working at 16, almost 21 now. When I first started my stutter was terrible, I...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2020
2 points

Don't let the fear of stuttering prevent you from making friends and talking to people. It can be hard at first, but if you embrace who you are, people will definitely understand. If it ever comes up ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2020
2 points

My stammer was moderate in high school and uni. But since doing a PhD, where I have encountered many situations such as giving presentations it has eased. I remember vividly being terrified of present...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterJul 11, 2020
93 points

Open letter from a happy stutterer to young stammers. My thoughts and mistakes for you to learn.

Open letter from a happy stutterer to young stammers. My thoughts and mistakes for you to learn. Hi mates, I’ve discovered this sub with a lot of relatable content. I’m glad to see some wholesome his...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationAdvice Offered+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
6 points

Try and de stress yourself as much as you can! Take calming breaths before they decide just to calm down. Another thing you can fake is being “the shit”. Basically being a mix of confident and cocky. ...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindfulness & BreathingMindset shift