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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
1 points

❤️ one day we will all overcome it, I had days where I wouldn’t leave my room for months but the world is scary and our stutter is scarier. The only way is to go head on and pursue life regardless...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
1 points

All we can do is fight to be stronger and overcome it. But deep down this is how most of us feel all day. God is good....

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2022
2 points

I really wanted to be a teacher, but never thought I could be in front of the class. I felt I wouldn’t be effective, but more so, I dreaded being made fun of by students. So I chose social work, think...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2022
6 points

No. I have never let my stutter take a job away from me…for the most part 😅 I work in 2 jobs that require talking to people alllll day. It’s hell but I just can’t let my stutter take certain things a...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2022
2 points

Disability.. this the right word. As many idealists refuse to call things by their names. Thus we have to adapt ourselves to this fucking disability to have a normal life! P.S. I’m not in a mood to ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Medicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2022
3 points

I've had to settle for a boring desk job where I never have to talk to anyone. I actually enjoy it because I compare them to past jobs where I had to talk a lot, and I was always miserable and stress...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2022
3 points

I've totally avoided any job that would involve talking, I've always had mundane, low paid driving jobs where I can more or less be alone most of the da.. I know 100% my stutter has cost me a dece...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2022
2 points

i know exactly how you feel also everybody thinks i’m awkward and can’t talk to girls but the thing is i know exactly what to say but can’t say it smoothly 😅...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2022
1 points

for real, like i feel it coming and i just give up and don’t even bother talking. i’m glad i found this community, i’ve never actually met or talked with anyone that has a stutter before 😂...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2022
2 points

it’s a struggle man, there’s been times where i wanna say something but i feel a stutter coming along so i don’t talk. has made a lot of awkward situations also...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJan 12, 2022
18 points

I hate this disability

I hate this disability I am never taken seriously I am looked at as incapable I cannot express myself unless I’m blacked out on alcohol or benzodiazepines which are ruining my life punching holes in m...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Strategic Swearing/CursingHelplessness & AgencyRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2022
2 points

I get the frustration but honestly if this is where you are putting your attention, you will never leave victim mentally. We need to accept where we are at and learn to get better each and every day...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2022
1 points

Man what do you mean that if you ask a person without legs he also will say the same thing, but this is really every person who has a problem which makes it very difficult for him to move forward norm...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2022
4 points

SO TRUE! I've been saying this throughout my replies on this reddit community.. my whole life would of taken a different course, and I would of been able to pursue a career that I wanted to do, ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2022
3 points

Probably every day since I was 15. I mean *probably* because the thought of not wanting to live, to have been born in a different life without a stammer, and reincarnating to a different life form are...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyEnergy & Biological Rhythms
postr/StutterJan 9, 2022
15 points

How often do you use stuttering as an excuse to not do something?

How often do you use stuttering as an excuse to not do something? I've been doing this for as long as I can remember. I realize I do it constantly to literally just talk myself out of trying or doing ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2022
2 points

Yes. Having trouble saying your own name is very unfair and people can't take me seriously at all they all think that I am stupid or something . I honestly don't know how I am going to progress in li...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Feared Words & NamesHelplessness & AgencyCure Claims / Alt-Treats
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2022
1 points

Yes but not only cuz of stuttering.. Yeah I am also those who got other problems besides stuttering and fk it I got a small stature, and I can't tolerate others' discriminations and frequent problems ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2022
1 points

A lesson I was taught awhile ago was "if you trust someone, and they speak from a non emotional spot, maybe you can trust them". I used to always have performance anxiety when it comes to the bedroo...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJan 6, 2022
25 points

Security Guard

Security Guard My stutter is pretty bad so my verbal communication is not that reliable, especially in high stress situations. I've been trying to find a job for a while and my father insists that my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more