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commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2018
3 points

Yeah dude I’ve gotten that before too. This one girl hung out with my friend group and was like “So who’s the guy who has a stutter?” I laughed and said it was me. Later on she told me it was really h...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2018
1 points

Do exactly what you said. Be confident and optimistic man. The key to dating is just to keep doing it until you're so relaxed it's like second nature. I haven't had any particularly bad dates and mo...

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postr/StutterJan 23, 2018
12 points

I have a date tonight, feeling nervous but optimistic. Anyone here have dating stories?

I have a date tonight, feeling nervous but optimistic. Anyone here have dating stories? going to see a movie tonight with a girl i've known for a little while. I like her a lot and i think she's into ...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2018
3 points

I’m really late on this, but I could totally relate to this guy! The reading during class, it being hard to talk to teachers, and of course having talking to girls be way more complicated. Great stuff...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2018
1 points

This is correct, but it is also much easier for a girl to find a guy than it is for a guy to find a girl regardless of stuttering. Guys have to be proactive in the social/romantic domains (Girls can b...

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Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2018
3 points

Good on you for being open about it. I think of my stutter a screening device, and instead of trying to hide my stutter in the hope that people will like me, I say why not flip the whole paradigm on i...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2018
2 points

It is true. Women have a laundry list of requirements for a guy. Lots of which are pretty hard to attain with a stutter. Just can't be bothered to even try....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2018
3 points

I hate to say this, but I think you’re right. I think its much easier for a girl who stutters to find a guy than it is for a guy who stutters to find a girl. I’m not trying to discriminate here and I’...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2018
2 points

You're a girl (I'm only guessing here) of course you're going to be approached. Most of us here don't have that "luxury"....

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2018
5 points

I recently joined a dating website. Some people say that you shouldn't disclose it until you're about to meet the person so it doesn't put them off but it's literally the second line on my profile. Ta...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2018
2 points

Good for you. You’re a hope. I am still trying to figure out my life. I am 25 just wondering what to do with future. Getting married petrifies me because i have no idea what my SO will expect from me ...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2018
1 points

Stress, self confidence, alcohol, be having gotten laid within the past month, etc...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2018
1 points

You go in with a growth mindset. The first interview (and probably a few afterwards) you do will probably be your worst, but take that experience and juice all the information from it. Mentally prep...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2018
0 points

Hey so how can I do this when applying to a job? See, I need to make a good impression I need other people to like me because I need a job! What if I won't find a man who will like me and accept me ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2018
1 points

Relationships is one of those things I don't think the stutter has any impact on at all. Girls really don't seem to care, in my experience, and I doubt guys do the other way. ...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2018
4 points

Hey! I was in the same boat recently. I went to literally just one speech therapy session and it changed everything for me. The therapist I went to (Vivian Sisskin, read her method or listen to her ...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2018
1 points

Hi. Thanks so much for your response. I'm so glad. I have no friends and no one to talk to about this stuff with. Oh yeah for sure. Oh gosh. I can't imagine. Yeah that's annoying. Hate that. Can I...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2018
2 points

It often didn’t feel like it at the time, but as far as dating does, I’m sure I’ve dodged a number of bullets by letting my stutter filter out terrible people. ...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2018
1 points

Firstly I would like to say you're never alone in this world there too many people for any one person to ever be alone. For example all of us here replying, we're with you. :) Ive had a stutter all m...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2018
2 points

So what did you do and what worked? I choose work that doesn't involve much talking but the thing is - how can I get past the interview? I mean I do well when I'm comfortable and I'm fine with my pare...

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