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postr/StutterSep 23, 2024
4 points

new language is nightmare

new language is nightmare I'm not native english speaker, but i'm around it for more than 5 years so far, i think i'm good at writing, but when it comes to verbal communication (which i can't avoid), ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Propositionality & WeightAvoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life+2 more
postr/StutterSep 22, 2024
18 points

Guys I’m having very trouble making friends plus ordering in coffe is really hard for me and is making depressed and making me lonely without friends

Guys I’m having very trouble making friends plus ordering in coffe is really hard for me and is making depressed and making me lonely without friends I want to know if someone is in same place and how...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingHiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation+1 more
postr/overcome_stutteringSep 19, 2024
7 points

Life long depression

Life long depression I’m 36 years old and been dealing with my stutter my whole life.. when I was a kid I’d pray that Jesus would take something else!! Just let me be able to talk.. I’ve been dwn rea...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterSep 18, 2024
22 points

I’m different

I’m different I live in a different world. And everyone judges me and they want more from me but they don’t understand that I’m trying my hardest. I’m so different. I always will be. And yet, I’m al...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterSep 14, 2024
10 points

Anyone here turned solitary and dumb because of long time stuttering?

Anyone here turned solitary and dumb because of long time stuttering? Just want to see if it's only me or there are others as well....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Loneliness & IsolationIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 10, 2024
13 points

I don’t know what to do

I don’t know what to do My whole life i’ve been stuttering. It has changed a lot since it began, like it used to be repeating the same syllable over and over again but its evolved into a block. Back i...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation+2 more
postr/StutterSep 10, 2024
7 points

Stutterer starting a new school year with no friends

Stutterer starting a new school year with no friends - I'm 16 and the school year is about to begin. All of my friends (the very few ones I had) moved to another high school and now I'm all by myself....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & IsolationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2024
0 points

I'm a 34 year old woman who stutters, and yeh, I'd say I find it hard to make friends. I've never really had a 'best friend'. I've not had a group of girlfriends since school. Nobody threw me a baby s...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-PerceptionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2024
1 points

Surround yourself with people who do. In the end, no one will truly understand our disability, but we can't let it warp our worldview and happiness...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2024
2 points

Same as me man, im 28 and it is rough I get so much anxiety just being around my roomate its crippling...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
4 points

I am also in my late 20s and feel the exact same way. I feel socially stunted. I find small talk so difficult and I haven’t had a friend since I was 16. I have spent the last 12 years on my own. I nev...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
3 points

Are you me? I'm literally the same. Financially I'm good but i feel like money can't really buy happiness. I'm trying to fill the void with games/streams and other media. I'm ghost.. I don't really ...

Therapy & ProfessionalSocial & Relationships
Access & AffordabilitySeeking TherapyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
8 points

100% yes. If there’s one thing I’m definitely guilty of and it’s honestly something I hate about myself it’s avoiding situations. I fucking hate it, it’s not me at all. I like talking to people, I l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
2 points

Same What i gonna do with this personality if i can't even get to open up and have conversation Always will be the weird arrogant boy who sits quiet and don't talk to anyone...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Loneliness & IsolationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
1 points

But dude…your techniques are *actively failing* you! I’m not omniscient - just literate, and know that the panic, underemployment, suicidal ideation, and social isolation are TERRIBLE to live with!...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressLoneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
0 points

In daily basis, It is like dealing with thousands problem with stuttering is very exhausting, and I gain energy by being alone, so I always go for being alone to feel good again. And about that exampl...

Social & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Quality of LifeStress & Fight/FlightLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
0 points

Fwiw, I feel like worse things have happened to me. I’m an adult onset stutterer. It sucks. Truly sucks. But I’ve experienced situations in life, profession and health which hurt me far more. That’s...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Severity & FluctuationMedicalization / NeurodiversityValidation & Empathy+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
4 points

Me too. But I somehow found a speech therapy and got better. But still, I have to suffer from nervousness my whole life. I’ve been stuttering for 10 years or so. I’m currently working on my speech and...

Therapy & ProfessionalCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Therapy ExperiencesStress & Fight/FlightLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
1 points

Oof that’s a hard one. I think it’s okay if you *can’t.* If you sit there silently without contributing, someone may eventually point it out, and you can take that opportunity to explain why. It’s not...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
5 points

Stammering sucks. I wish there should have been be a separate country for people with stammering and selective mutism because other people don't understand us....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingLoneliness & Isolation