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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2025
3 points

Also to add to this, we do everything we can to make sure our child knows that stuttering isn’t a big deal. It’s just a different way of talking. We never interrupt him. We never laugh at him, we give...

Parent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Home SupportDisclosure & Telling OthersSchool/Clinical Advocacy
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
1 points

Do what works for you. Personally, and with the guidance of my speech therapist, I have brought it up. I usually start my introducing myself then mention I stammer to avoid any awkwardness. After tha...

Social & RelationshipsTherapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersTherapy ExperiencesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
1 points

Yep. Don’t give up and don’t turn down speaking opportunities. Just tell people you have a stutter upfront and forget about what people think. What matters is that you speak your mind, not that you sp...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
1 points

Tell people up front. Take all the mystery and stigma away. It’s not a cure but it sure helps—especially if you buy the theory, as I do, that stuttering is what we do to avoid stuttering. Also, it mi...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
1 points

Do what works for you. My first lead interview when fine but my second one was horrible with me stuttering and blocking. At my current position I told them that I have a disability and that’s ok for m...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
5 points

I usually make my stutter a talking point in the interview. Like if they ask you about times you have overcome adversity or anything like that. Just use your stutter as an example of how you overcome ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
1 points

"I have a moderate stutter and sometimes it might take a minute. Don't worry, we will all get through it together." Is usually my go-to for interviews and public speaking....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
8 points

In my experience, revealing that i have a stutter takes the pressure off to speak fluently and appear normal lol....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
5 points

I always mention it at the beginning and say I'm just nervous, and that it tends to make it more obvious 😊 they tend to reassure me and it breaks the ice. Successfully interviewed many times! I say g...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
3 points

I had a job interview pretty close to 2 years ago. Interview went well , didn’t really have any issues. at the end they asked if I had any comments or questions for them. Told them I had a stutter tha...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
12 points

I have stuttering issues all my life and have cracked multiple interview. Do whatever makes you comfortablein yourself. Sufferring from a neurological issue is not easy. If telling the panel that you...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
5 points

Please don’t let your stutter control some of the best years of your life. Please work through it. If a woman really likes you, she won’t care and will look past it. Be confident and bold when talking...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationMindset shiftDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
3 points

I completely agree that it really does need to start being seen as a disability. Sometimes I feel like my life would be so much easier if I was mute and didn’t have the expectation to talk. With a stu...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Medicalization / NeurodiversityQuality of LifeSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
1 points

It's a good fun fact to bust out to put both you and the group you're with at ease. I'll try my best to just talk, but once I start losing my mind I'll just stop and be like "fun fact, I have a stutte...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Humor & Community ToneDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
1 points

I do so, but tactfully and matter of factly. Don’t wait until you start to struggle. You don’t want it to seem like something you are sharing as an excuse or even a shield. It’s just something you wan...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
4 points

I typically tick any box that says I have a disability, ask for extra time for my stutter, or if not an idea of the interview questions or topics beforehand.  And I additionally say at the start of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
2 points

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11983242/ TLDR; telling someone you have a stammer works and is beneficial for everyone...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Research & ResourcesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
3 points

Disclosing it up front. Like others have said, it lets the employer know about you. In addition to that, it also gives you a chance to know about the employer whether they value your ability to perf...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2025
4 points

Yea, that's what i feel that disclosing is transparent, honest, and like owning it. It's not very severe, just minor hiccups, but that tends to increase my tempo overall as I'm busy to finish the lin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2025
6 points

It depends on the severity of your stutter. If you believe it may be a deciding factor then disclose it. They’re going to find out anyway. Disclosing shows confidence, and self awareness. Did your e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career