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commentr/StutterNov 18, 2022
2 points

I work at Subway. so i am glad I can make my own sandwiches now so I don't have to awkwardly try and tell someone else what I want on it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2022
1 points

For a stutterer I think large crowds are fine if no talking is involved. With social anxiety the problem is the crowd or anyone in general that could be judging....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2022
3 points

Exposure therapy. I make myself use the drive through periodocally so it never gets too big in my head. Also an excuse to get takeaway haha...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2022
7 points

I haven't been through a drive thru in months. I just order my food through a app and go inside to pick it up or have it delivered to me now these days...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2022
2 points

Haven't tried. I always think I'll customise the wrong sub and it'll be fucking awful or I'll make myself look like an idiot so I just avoid it unless someone else is ordering for me and I just say, "...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2022
1 points

It’s interesting you mention this, no I think people don’t notice it as much as I do. In fact, even times when I struggle people seem to just be happy I helped them. They don’t think I’m incompetent I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2022
8 points

I feel ya 100% Sadly I had a similar experience but I literally stopped even talking lol, it was hell but im way over it, then I did have my moments with some more seminars, most went well....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2022
1 points

I did that when I was a kid too. Looking back, it probably helped. I still stutter like a son of a bitch but I dont avoid people as much on the phone....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2022
2 points

This. I had to do it as a kid. I hated it and got hung up on all the time at first. Then it got easier. Now I don’t care about talking on the phone at all. I know a bunch of fluent people who hate tal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2022
1 points

Dam it--I wish I could forget that I stuttered and had superior confidence!!! I NEVER worry about stuttering and I stutter nasty!!! This is hell for me!!! I never ever have focused on how I say thin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2022
1 points

I stopped worrying about how others perceive me a long time ago. They honestly don’t care or even if they laugh it only lasts up to 10 seconds before they’re on to the next topic of discussion...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
2 points

I put that I stutter in my bio. it's a good way to weed out people. I wouldn't want to go on a date with a pretty girl and she find out that I stutter and ghost me. Mentally, I don't feel like going t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
1 points

As I’ve said in my other comments, it’s very much a part of me and trying to hide will do me more harm than good...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
2 points

It's tough call fr. On one hand, putting it out in the open, can help some stutterers feel more confident. But on the other hand, some might pass on you (unfairly) because of that, without even gettin...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
2 points

That's my take too. If anything I tend to lean on the cautious side and have been reminded it's not an absolute rule I have to follow, so for certain dates I don't mention it at all. It's still on my ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
9 points

Most of us take great pains to mask it so many people would be confused/concerned if someone stops talking mid sentence and has an unexpected body/facial movement....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
0 points

Honestly I avoid eye contact with most people, makes me feel very uncomfortable. The only people I regularly make eye contact with while talking are people I'm already comfortable with so I rarely stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
1 points

My stutter is so obvious I pretty much have to mention it if I'm going to be trying to say anything extensive to anyone who isn't just a passing stranger. Otherwise between the blocks and weird faces ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
1 points

I think PWS develop all sorts of subtle ways to hide their attempts to avoid eye contact. But it could be unrelated?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2022
1 points

I hear you. I was married in 2008. Intimate ceremony in Italy with family and friends. About 35 of us so I can relate to you. I’m Irish btw… And so, to challenge myself, I opted for the last speech. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingSeverity & Fluctuation