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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
1 points

My mom didn't even really acknowledge it tbh and I think it helped because I was never really self conscious about it but I still got mad when someone would mock me. That's just what kids do tho. I'm ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2023
2 points

I’m almost 41 and have been a life long stutterer. He’s going to deal with it his entire life and the fact he’s doing okay with it now is amazing. I still run into adults that think it’s hilarious to...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2023
1 points

Lol i like your speech. I used to solve bullies problems like you. But i spent a lot of time against the wall. The wall was hit a lot too but it didn't break. F wall....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2023
7 points

Yeah, I've been ashamed all my life, and I hate myself when I stutter, I just go over and over in my head saying why didn't I just say nothing, indeed I've had a lifetime of saying nothing whe...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterMay 24, 2023
34 points

Rethinking stuttering

Rethinking stuttering Hi, I'm relatively new to this subreddit and I've been reading your posts for sometime now. I would like to share my thoughts on feeling shame and guilt when stuttering, and real...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2023
0 points

At one point in time most people didn’t agree that all people should have equal rights. The opinion of a majority in this case is heavily swayed by socially dominant ableist attitudes...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2023
2 points

Oh, it is so frustrating to be misunderstood because we stutter. Hang in there. Remember what goes around, comes around. Something will come to that co-worker that will raise his consciousness about h...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2023
1 points

This is a question I have a ton of experience with, and I can confidently say: occasionally! I've had interviews where they found out (either I advertised or it was out from jump) and they didn't eve...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2023
3 points

Thank you. I am experiencing exactly the same things : I feel so confident and self-aware too that when people tell me that I look insecure I think "What the heck ? I'm clearly the opposite of what th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2023
3 points

I get you. No matter how confident I feel people told me that I get across as insecure. It makes me mad because I don't feel that way and I know that 's because of my stutter. I'm pretty outgoing and ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterMay 22, 2023
14 points

Do ignorant people tell you that "You lack self-esteem" ?

Do ignorant people tell you that "You lack self-esteem" ? ...because it happens to me all the time and I think it is due to my stuttering. I find it really irritating actually even though I know they ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2023
4 points

In general bro girls & other guys mostly care about the stuttering. It's just a fact of life. Now but some also don't occasionally..in reality a few things could have happened. She could be gettin...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2023
0 points

One thing I wanted to get your opinion on to is almost every girl I been has called me corny and I kinda feel like that is related to how it’s impossible for stutters to get respect...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2023
5 points

I am telling you man, these hoes don't give a fuck about your problems, the moment they see anything that tells them that the man is not confident ...which they mistake stuttering to be, or any other ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2023
1 points

Yea, leave her bro. From what u saying is she doesn't respect u, I think u need to check her, bro. She probably acts differently when yall in public I bet, Its other women out there don't settle for t...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2023
11 points

If she's not comfortable with the way u speak fuck that hoe don't settle for someone that not comfortable with your probable, and what she mean about not acting weird? Like tapping on your leg to get ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterMay 21, 2023
11 points

Something a girl I dated said to me

Something a girl I dated said to me So there’s was this Puerto Rican girl that I was talking to for a couple of months and she knew I stuttered but she never mentioned it but this one day it kinda jus...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
2 points

I realize it will eventually happen. You are competing with so many people and the rejection may not be due to your stutter, it may just be you're not compatible....

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
1 points

First of all, fuck that guy. Second, you should report him to upper management or HR. Maybe look into your gym’s contact information and consider emailing a detailed report of what happened and his ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
3 points

Really sorry to hear that. I think they’ve done you a favour because you don’t want to work for a ‘law firm’ that has broken the law I’m sure you, a lawyer, know that it’s illegal to not hire someon...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingAccess & Rights