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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2022
3 points

Truth! It’s not easy to fully accept that being a stutterer is just a part of you but once you do you won’t go through so many emotions because of it. I use to feel ashamed about it for a while but no...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2022
8 points

Well in all my years I've always been ashamed of it, I think even more so as I got older .....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2022
2 points

I don’t wanna say I was offended but it just brought back some negative feelings that’s all. People unfortunately weren’t empathetic to me at all....

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2022
3 points

I was watching it with friends and had no idea that scene was in there. It seemed kinda thoughtless that they would choose to watch that and to laugh at it with me around....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterAug 17, 2022
25 points

I watched My Cousin Vinny for the first time and the stutter scene in court really got me

I watched My Cousin Vinny for the first time and the stutter scene in court really got me It reminded me of high school and the handful of disastrous presentations I was forced to give in class. It’s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2022
2 points

While not zoom or FaceTime. I’ve found it hard at first to watch myself on twitch or YouTube. While I love creating the content, it was rough watching myself stutter. It’s gotten easier though to do, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2022
6 points

I find my stutter really annoying to deals with, like if I hear myself in a recording it’s annoying so I wouldn’t be able to deal with that tbh. Idk how my friends do it...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2022
1 points

Before the first time I was really upset with myself because I thought I'd worried my mom, and well, when I feel guilt I tend to think bad things about myself or do bad things to myself, but I was try...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
12 points

Absolutely. Very tiresome. Especially when it either turns into a patronizing tone (such as speaking-to-a-child-voice or speaking s l o w l y) or people at a gathering unable to see me as anything but...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Audience Scale & Group SizeShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
13 points

I feel its not the people. Its like I lose respect for myself each time I stutter. Feels like I have failed an exam or failed this life. Takes a toll on me mentally and I cure myself often and again....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
3 points

It just sucks because it makes you look bad in a group. A girl who liked me introduced me to her friend group and I just blocked and looked awkward, and I think they "disapproved" of me, if you get w...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Audience Scale & Group SizeShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterAug 14, 2022
19 points

Trying to let it go....

Trying to let it go.... So guys an incident happened with me recently so wanted to share it here. There is a shop near my flat in Pune which I visit frequently. While ordering some stuff I stutter a f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterAug 14, 2022
1 points

Anyone else feel disrespected in different situations because of their stutter, but people will blame it on something else

Anyone else feel disrespected in different situations because of their stutter, but people will blame it on something else I've heard people making jokes about me behind my back, or even to my face as...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterAug 14, 2022
7 points

Can anyone else "feel" people losing respect for them while/after they stutter?

Can anyone else "feel" people losing respect for them while/after they stutter? Especially when you have a block or there is secondary behaviours like eye movements/blinking [View Poll](https://www.r...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
2 points

I would get rid of it,i would rather be the poorest man in the world but still talk... or do i...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
1 points

Im currently in medical school and 24. I feel the exact same way you described and am constantly doubting myself. My grades are great but my communication is horrible, which is equally as important in...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
2 points

Currently in medical school and feeling the same way. Wondering how I got here and am constantly besting myself up and convincing myself I don’t belong with my peers who can speak fluently, even thoug...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
School & Academic LifeShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
3 points

5 people so far basically said "screw the money i hate my stutter" so i guess its not too much to them (which i respect)...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
3 points

Yeah it does bother me. I know its intended as a compliment most of the time but it still bugs me. Maybe to some people a stutter sounds cute, but it certainly doesn’t feel cute to have it...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
1 points

Yeah, I genuinely do get puzzled whether or not that’s just for the sake of trying to make me feel better or not....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment