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postr/StutterNov 17, 2024
12 points

Our hidden Talent !

Our hidden Talent ! Hiding your stutter is like having a secret superpower a talent for concealing things in plain sight. It’s not just about masking your speech; it’s about mastering subtlety, readin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2024
9 points

It's another fluency shaping tool and like all tools, they don't work when you need them and reinforce stuttering stigma. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2024
2 points

Nah gang don't you see the opportunities you miss out on.lemme give you an example,there was this chick in my 12th class,had crush on since 11th and she asked me an English answer,since she was sittin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2024
2 points

Even in my spanish I stutter so english and spanish haha point 2 is good and knowing your limit. Thank----(5 minute delay)--- you 😃...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2024
2 points

também sinto que nunca fui nada de verdade, os dias que eu mais valorizei foram os que eu estava "menos" gago, hoje eu vejo que isso ainda não chega nem perto do que os caras carismáticos conseguem fa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2024
1 points

I need the money lol …. Some days are ok as long as I don’t get upset. Some callers are so freakin rude you would not believe it and it gets em agitated. but we have kinda a script we stick too but ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2024
18 points

That actually contains a nice mix of challenging yourself a bit as well as knowing your limitations and not putting unnecessary pressure on yourself, at least that's the way I see it. Nicely put toge...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
1 points

I get the concern around dating. I can’t get many words out, but when I can, I make sure they are very well thought out and meaningful. You have a lot of time to select and assemble your replies when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & RomanceSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterNov 16, 2024
41 points

I'm tired

I'm tired Every time I want to talk I can't, it happens with anyone in any situation. Most of the time I stay quiet and I seem like someone boring, I just feel afraid for my future,I feel increasingl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterNov 16, 2024
7 points

Telling a girl I stutter / speech block?

Telling a girl I stutter / speech block? I’ve been speaking to a girl I used to know from school, we both used to like each other at school but nothing really happened between us. I did have the same ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
1 points

**Stutter example:**  **Neutral stimulus**: Speaking our name  **Transformation**: An intrusive thoughts “If I speak my name I cannot substitute the word” increases perceived pressure  **Conditione...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
1 points

**Stutter example:**  **Neutral stimulus**: A specific word used without issue in casual speech. **Transformation**: Repeated difficulty with this word during moments of high stress creates a ment...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & Psychological+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
1 points

I have no knowledge of YT video editing, but once we finish the diagram, maybe you can help me with creating a web series or YT playlist? However, I don’t think a web series on 'random important thin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & Psychological+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
1 points

To add something, whenever I speak English I don't focus on my speech I focus on my English language speaking skill. Like just I like I mentioned in my previous comment, when I speak I focus on which ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
1 points

Basically, I just got used to it. I was forced to speak more than I used to do because I moved abroad for study. Since it is just me now, I started speaking a lot and somehow I managed to control it. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
1 points

Yea, that's a good idea. Maybe a YT video playlist about stuttering onset/development regarding how a neutral stimulus turns into a conditioned stimulus (that elicits a conditioned response) aka a tri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & Psychological+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
2 points

Maybe people do have the internal or external resources to “just get more confident”. They need tangible steps to directly address the stutter....

Community & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Advice RequestsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2024
1 points

i think just tell him that you face speech blocks,cause in the end you have to tell him so why not now as if he doesnt wanna commit,it would be clear from the beginning rather than committing and then...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2024
2 points

Is this a troll comment, and do you have a stutter? "Regardless, if you can sometimes articulate a sound, but other times, it’s not coming out to the degree you consider changing your own name, it’s ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2024
3 points

Chances are he knows you stutter. Try holding / interacting with some fidget toy while you're talking. It probably won't help your stutter, but it may help with the ticks. Just go for it. You'll n...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Physical TensionAvoidance & Substitution