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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
1 points

Just casually mention the first time you talk. You dont have to make a big deal out of it, just say, “By the way, since weve only been texting, it hasnt come up, but i stutter some times. Just giving ...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
1 points

Ok then yea, I would probably tell her. But also add some details about stuttering and how it impacts you. Don't expect her to just know what it means when you tell her that you do stutter. Try to con...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
2 points

I think the best thing to do is to just say something small like “Hey, I might sound a bit weird, it’s because I have this stutter” or something like that. Try not to make a big deal about it, because...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
2 points

Ohh I understand your pain so much! I work in an environment where I have to introduce myself on a daily basis..and I work with people 80% of my time at work. I haven't found a miracle way of saying m...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
3 points

I've had it too many times..unfortunately. And most of the time after they say something like this I somehow push out my name, tell about my stuttering and then there's this super uncomfortable pause ...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
1 points

I have it in my profile, but I basically wait until we have rapport and I can tell she's digging me and then I bring it up again....

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
3 points

Tell her now. I have it on my profile for all to see. It's not something you can hide, they gotta be cool with it from the start....

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
3 points

Immediately. The longer you wait the harder it’s going to be. It’s unfair to her as well to hide something like that....

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
12 points

Tell her now dude. I always find it easier to just get it out of the way. I usually put in my bios that I’m a stutterer...

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postr/StutterJun 24, 2020
17 points

When to reveal stutter to a girl I met on a dating app?

When to reveal stutter to a girl I met on a dating app? So I been talking to this girl I met on this dating app. She lives somewhat far from me (2hr30min flight). We been texting back and forth on the...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
1 points

That breaks my heart. Have you tried overcoming your fear and just being open about your stutter? I’m sure most kids your age is mature enough to be accepting of it and wouldn’t mock you. Are you...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2020
2 points

Something that's helped me is being the one asking the question. I normally just start by saying "I didn't catch your name, I'm Nikhil." Definitely helpful for me. Even if you do get a bit stuck, it ...

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commentr/StutterJun 22, 2020
1 points

I think you might want to try online dating. It eliminates the fear of having to walk up and approach a stranger, especially if you have a stutter like we do. I would chat online for awhile, then ment...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2020
2 points

If you want to talk about it, just bring it up with her. My boyfriend stutters and I don't, and while his stutter was never a big deal to me, I didn't know it was a big deal to him until he told me. ...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
2 points

I’m pretty open about it, especially when meeting new people. Most people know what stuttering is, but not many really know what it looks like, so mentioning it off the bat tends to put people (and me...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
1 points

If I’m like socializing at events or in class I won’t mention it unless they look visibly confused, but if I’m going on a date or an interview I will like bring it up beforehand...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
2 points

If I know them or am talking to the people in question then no it’s not weird to me. Sometimes people want to know about it but don’t know hiw to go about the subject. But if a stranger walks up to me...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
1 points

Like everyone else is saying, it depends on the girl. I've been with my recent girlfriend for almost two years and she doesn't mind. But girls like that are in the minority in my opinion so you're goi...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
2 points

Depending on the situation I do like to mention it beforehand, like in a job interview. I feel it puts me in control of the situation, and I feel a lot more comfortable when I start stuttering, becaus...

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postr/StutterJun 19, 2020
1 points

is it weird when people talk about ur stutter?

is it weird when people talk about ur stutter? hey! I'm 18(F). I've been antisocial throughout my school life because of my stutter. but now, In college there seems to be no option to continue being a...

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