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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2025
1 points

Food for thought: 1) Stuttering can go into remission and people who once stuttered are better for the time bring. 2) Some kids who were severe, hit puberty and their speech got better into adulthood...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2025
1 points

Still not a good sign if it's nervous laughter, because it's laughter it still looks like mocking. I know she's explained it not though, but op it depends entirely on how you feel...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2025
1 points

Salute to your courage sir. Many of us here including me got fear of public speaking. Also one thing I would like to share with you sir is whenever you stutter just breathe. Have a great day 🙂...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2025
12 points

Kinda depends how bad you have it. If the stamina is mild, there is a chance you can manage it well. Most people with stutters tend to be introverted and analyse every social situation. Confidence is...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2025
6 points

Not true. Confidence is key. Even if you have to fake it. She needs to feel safe and protected with you....

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
2 points

I sometimes get told when people react or even giggle when I stutter that they are either reacting to getting caught off guard, think that I'm trying to be funny, or don't know its an issue and they d...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
2 points

Being named Donal and not Joseph which was the original plan, and my middle name, had a fairly dramatic impact on my life as to this day I'm absolutely terrified of ever meeting someone new. The str...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
1 points

The benefit/cost ratio of seeing if you’d be strengthened or hurt isn’t worth the possible opportunity for your emotional growth. Stay away. You don’t need this gamble....

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
2 points

I wouldn’t count on a positive outcome regardless. Her laugh response isn’t connected to empathy and it’s not specific towards any particular situation. Maybe seeing a blind person using his cane woul...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
2 points

Stay Away. The very mentioning shows her lack of self control as well as causing you discomfort by even bringing it to your attention. TOTAL disregard for you. She might have other issues with empathy...

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postr/StutterJan 17, 2025
3 points

Hypnosis

Hypnosis Has anyone tried hypnosis therapy to help with their stutter/block? I stuttered as a kid but grew out of it. After a traumatic experience in my adulthood, my stutter is back. I have been to t...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
1 points

Those are all helpful suggestions in general but OP is describing a very specific thing - having a fear response around speaking, and engaging in frequent word switching and avoidance in order to not ...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
1 points

I'm very guilty of this, but I would've explained it like that instead of directly it solely at OP's stutter. "Hey, just a heads up, but I sometimes laugh when nervous or awkward. I'm really sorry i...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
0 points

I would've stopped the conversation there and ended our chats. I get it's not even the first date yet, but I don't want someone LAUGHING at me, esp in public. First, it's embarrassing for YOU. Seco...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
0 points

I dont normalize ppl laughing at me, i just dont get hurt and overly defensive when they do especially if its the first times were speaking....

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
0 points

That seems very fishy and I guess she means that she laughs at wrong things at the wrong time, and she's aware of that (as if you were holding in a laugh at a meme on Instagram Reels in school). If sh...

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postr/StutterJan 17, 2025
2 points

Online language learning

Online language learning Hello! I’m thinking about starting to have lessons to improve my English. I found some platforms like Cambly and Italki. My problem is that when I speak English I stutter A L...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
1 points

I would be put off by her message, much as you. You should let her explain herself, she could just have that type of personality to laugh when she is nervous. It that is true, warning you beforehand i...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
-1 points

I think youre just a butthurt insecure guy if that offends you. Stuttering is made fun of in the film industry so its easy for ppl to laugh at it. Telling you in advance only shows she cares about you...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
6 points

I'm having an especially hard time with my stutter right now too. It's so frustrating and isolating. It's hard to connect with people or just do the things you need to do. A lot of people take fluency...

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