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commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
1 points

I often struggle saying my name (it begins with an “E”). I am in my 30s. One thing that has helped has been to visualize the word in my head beforehand, and to imagine myself saying the whole word, no...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
1 points

Of course. Maybe you have gotten used to people ignoring you so you think that there are only a few things you can say that will gain people’s approval. And you are stressing out to find that 1% of th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
2 points

No matter what our names start with, I bet every single stutterer has trouble with their name. I know I do. It's really mind over matter. When think ourselves into a tizzy because we know we need to s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
2 points

Why did you think you couldn't defend your thesis? Was it that you didn't feel confident in the material or was it solely because of your stuttering?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
2 points

This is all because I care and think too much. It has become a habit to close up ones someone comes and talks to me. Not being able to care is so so hard but I will try my best. Thank you so much 😭...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
5 points

Ty for the advice. I practice by myself so many times but when the time actually comes and people ask what my name is my throat closes up and nothing comes out. But thank you so much...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
1 points

For me, its a little bit of both. If I don't have a clue on what I'm going to say or how to express it, I'll end up stuttering but if I focus too hard on what I'll say or on certain words, I'll stutte...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
2 points

At the same time I personally think it’s an internalized issue that we all have. I can blur words out no problem when I have incredibly little thought about my sentences. They just come out. It’s the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
2 points

I think it also has to do with practice. I believe I have a stutter due to spending the vast majority of my childhood on my own, not really having to practice my speech and only speaking in my head. E...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
2 points

Both actually, whenever I try to talk to myself it seems to go away but when I try to articulate a sentence using the words I stutter on I tend to get blocked. Giving myself time and thinking about ho...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesOverthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
2 points

That’s the new thing I’m running into, it’s so weird how stutters work because it’s an instant block but I’ll see what I can come up with 🤔...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2022
7 points

I don't stutter at all when I am talking alone. I think for me stuttering is mostly psychological than neurological....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2022
1 points

I'm not comfortable with the accents, I can barely do accents anyways lol I try and over pronounce monitoring at times and it makes it worse. It's the same when i say "Emergency", I don't know how d...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterJul 14, 2022
32 points

I think I figured something out

I think I figured something out I was thinking and I realized that speaking requires two things and that is the lips and tongue. I started to think about my stutter and how I always begin my words wit...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2022
3 points

My name and lately any name of someone if I'm asked by another "who is that". Pro nouns also or when asked to repeat something even if I just said it fluently. Basically words where I can't use a sub...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2022
8 points

Stuttering is a two edged sword. On one hand, when you do have lots of things to talk about you’re constantly anxious and stutter. However, since we’re always HYPER aware of conversations and what we’...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Propositionality & WeightOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2022
2 points

You'd be surprised how little people listen to you. As stutterers, we're often hypercritical of every bit of our speech. No one else listens with 1/100th of that attention to detail when we speak. I...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2022
2 points

Is there anything that you overthinked that turned out to be fine? Maybe you can take some things from it to apply to daily situations!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2022
2 points

Honestly, there are too many potential causes to test. I may track my caffeine and whatnot but other things could affect it too. Its hard to test imo. For instance, there's been times I've went in to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2022
1 points

I pretty much work on my stutter every time I talk. I don't have any specific time or place i do it tho...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring