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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2021
4 points

Thank you for taking the time to write this. I specifically like # 2 a lot, reframing your outcome or what we consider success or failure. Im learning that all though blocking in front of strangers c...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2021
1 points

I'd probably wager that me including the fact that I stutter on my online dating profile is probably why it's filled with the sound of crickets. On a more serious note, I definitely put that on my pr...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2021
2 points

Respect for approaching some strangers, that is still something I cannot bring myself to do. That is worthy of celebration. Its unfortunate it didn't work out as you would have liked, but thats how th...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureTherapy ExperiencesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2021
17 points

They also only ever just show people stuttering, not trying to deal with it. For example, there's no stuttering on the word "chair" for a second, and then changing to the word "seat". Which is a trick...

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Public Awareness / MediaAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2021
2 points

Ok to be fair everyone is different and different therapies can help different people. with that caveat out of the way, there are therapists who want to be progressive and tell you stuttering is ok (w...

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Acceptance & PrideTherapy ExperiencesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2021
5 points

I thought I was entirely cured once. Just out of the stutter state of mind entirely for over a day. But then when it came back it was that much more devastating but remember these days and ignore th...

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Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2021
3 points

I used to pronounce my hard K sounds like a T sound, I went to speech therapy at school and also dealt with the same issues with the “intellectual disability “ thing in early grade school. I eventua...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2021
2 points

When I say you can learn to control it, I'm not saying it'll go away. In fact, my post specifically said it'll never go away. When I'm talking about control, I mean you can communicate and participate...

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Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterApr 16, 2021
37 points

I blew it it last night with a woman

I blew it it last night with a woman Hello my fellow stutterers, just a quick thought jot-down here. I was out last night and some russian girls called me over saying i was cute. As soon as I started ...

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Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2021
2 points

Yeah I can relate to this. I can’t put it just on my stutter, it’s probably mainly the personality I developed as a result. I know I have odd quirks. I just didn’t think they were that big of a deal....

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Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterApr 13, 2021
57 points

Feel so fucking great!

Feel so fucking great! Just finished a job interview. I stuttered but I owned it. Don't care if I get the job or not as I feel fucking happy facing my fears. Facing your fears does wonders. We are mor...

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Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterApr 12, 2021
26 points

Sometimes I really hate the way I speak.

Sometimes I really hate the way I speak. I don't mean the stuttering, I mean having to resort to short to-the-point sentences instead of beautiful, elegant, phrases. I mean pretending I forgot basi...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
2 points

Totally empathize - so much of the time we’re muzzled by our stutter...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Authenticity vs. MaskingBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
8 points

I’m the same way. I’m witty and often I can’t express that. Luckily I have friends that know I’m quite witty but I’d be able to be so much more myself without this damn stutter lol. What’s helped me t...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterApr 11, 2021
24 points

My sense of humor takes big blows

My sense of humor takes big blows I’m naturally a quick-witted and sarcastic person and I love to argue and joke around. My stutter obstructs around 70% of my sense of humor and charisma, and it’s ext...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
1 points

Agreed. Most of the time we are our own problem. You hit it right on the head of the nail mate....

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Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2021
18 points

No, your stutter doesn't ruin anything. Read your post again. >Feels like every time i try to tell him a joke or a story ***my brain tells me*** You're ruining your own moment. Have some faith ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
2 points

This is terrible advice. These are all very well known, well documented avoidance techniques that ultimately do more harm than good. What happens when you sing the first few sounds of a sentence and s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterApr 9, 2021
6 points

Stand up comedy

Stand up comedy I wanted to test myself so I decided to write several jokes about my stuttering into jokes to tell. To my surprise my stutter completely went away on stage so most of my jokes I had to...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2021
2 points

Not rude at all! Yes, I committed to speech therapy since the start of the year and my therapist felt happy to hear that I'm beginning to find new confidence. I owe it all thanks to him that he told m...

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