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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2023
3 points

Unless you have another condition such as tourettes, the twitches or spasms are likely a conditioned response from trying to get words out with force. They probably helped when you were younger but th...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Physical TensionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2023
1 points

In order to instruct moving speech muscles, stop requiring to reduce: * feedback * perceiving stuttering as a problem or to be avoided * hearing your stuttering * feeling/tracking your speech muscles...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringCommunity & Support
Overthinking & MonitoringHiding & ConcealmentLoss of Control+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
16 points

Stuttering for 10 years, but not stuttering a lot anymore.

Stuttering for 10 years, but not stuttering a lot anymore. I’ve been stuttering for a long time. To me, stuttering is in my head. If I get nervous about stuttering, I stutter a lot. It used to make me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2023
3 points

i know it might not help but maybe try to say it slowly? just treat the words like syllables. no need to talk fast through an intercom anyway, so i dont think its gon seem weird to people....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2023
2 points

I would say though and this is my own personal opinion from my own experience that even if one wants to talk about it; don't. I think the more it is "ignored", the quicker it will go away in that par...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
2 points

Very helpfull, my stutter is getting better now that I'm getting more confident and not overthinking and avoiding....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
6 points

> Should I keep practicing at home or try not to think of it anymore? Try not to think about it. You will have many blocks in your future. Why let it consume all of your thoughts?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
2 points

This post really hit home for me. I had a lot of those same fears and insecurities in my teens and into my 20s. Honestly, I think everyone who stutters has felt this way. I always saw girls I wanted t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2023
1 points

Great story! I’m assuming you’re Christian. Me too. I’m a 25 year-old man. I actually began stuttering around 21 years old. I believe it was a combination of social confusion and emotional sensitivi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
1 points

I made it thru HS and college without excruciating shame.. I agree not to shelter yourself in a bubble, but using reasonable avoidance is A OK to have a peaceful and less sweaty existence....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
1 points

Yes. Stuttering changed the course of my life. After university, I dreaded a career in mental health because who would trust a person who could speak fluently? Fortunately, I married well and didn't H...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
24 points

Stuttering and The Whale

Stuttering and The Whale I watched The Whale by Brendan Fraser a couple days ago, and it got me reflecting on my own stutter and experience in a way that I'd like to share. The film keeps coming back...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
1 points

I think majority of people that stutter tends to have social anxiety when in a social environment we might have the biggest confident and ambitious to do anything but when it's time to speak and expre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
1 points

It ruined my confidence, social life and my biggest dream to move abroad and become a journalist or a teacher. And it's getting worse. But at the same time it helped me to become more emphatic, sensit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2023
1 points

I’m 22. I was a kid before everything went digital. I used to be terrified that I would need to order my own food by walking up to the till, or needing to ask the ticket guy on the train for a ticket ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
postr/StutterFeb 22, 2023
25 points

Putting off college due to fears of not being able to get hired afterwards

Putting off college due to fears of not being able to get hired afterwards I do not have a traditional stutter, I have a very severe block stutter. It’s so bad that I’m basically mute. I actually wish...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2023
5 points

Yeah I feel you. People think I'm rude because I don't make small talk but I know what will happen if I try to. This stuttering shit is hard bruh....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2023
3 points

It's always terrible in the workplace. People come to the job with their issues/trauma that make them feel powerless, and when you stutter during conversation with them it gives them that power back. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2023
1 points

I have quite a bad stutter, so I always send an email to inform the interviewer before. If it's not that bad.... Then I wouldn't worry at all. It's about what you say not how you say it?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2023
1 points

Personally I try to be covert. If I'm already deep into thr interview I'm too focused on the questions and what I'm going to say (I'm not thinking about my stutter). Since the inteview has already sta...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others