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commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
1 points

I worded it wrong I guess cause that's all everyone is taking from it. My point was, big blocks are more you fighting a small pause and when you learn just to be OK with the small pause the big blocks...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
1 points

I never said stuttering is only a repetition of sound. It can be repetition, pauses, blocks, tongue locks, chattering... I'm just saying large blocks are the worst case and can be minimized by being c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
2 points

That’s a very interesting angle, which in my experience has a lot of truth to it but I would think it mainly applies to those which a stutter that is underpinned by psychological and not physical trig...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
1 points

Stuttering is such a strange disorder and I think it varies for everyone what helps (to a point). If I start to substitute or avoid words they become more of a 'monster' in my mind, like there is no...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
2 points

Exactly, in my experience a stutter is alot easier to function with than blocks. Also it seems like big blocks are the result of trying to battle small blocks. Just let it rip. Years ago along with a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
2 points

Don't know why others are negative about your point, I think it's very reasonable and true. By 'Stuttering' I think you meant specifically the stammer part. I haven't tried just letting the repetitio...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
2 points

I’m simplifying it, but this is the order of severity, from least impactful/most healthy —> most impactful/least healthy Repetitions -> blocks -> avoiding single words by using substitutions -> avoi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
1 points

Really? It has worked for me many years now... Maybe I'm not using the right words, english is not my first language...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
3 points

Not my case! I can talk without problem with this method. Maybe it sounds odd to a listener but it works for me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
3 points

I have found the same. I'm amazed when people say they successfully use word substitution. Just like fillers that method works for a very short time and then things go down hill from there. We are all...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
3 points

Depending on filler words and substitutions will very likely lead to much harder blocks, resulting in avoiding entire verbal exchanges....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterDec 12, 2024
11 points

Taming the beast

Taming the beast Hi everyone, I just came here to write something. I'm 25 y/o and since many years ago I have my stutter under control 95% of the time through a combination of crutches, fillers and wo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
3 points

You're oversimplifying and sort of misrepresenting OP's point in a malicious manner. It's about trying to turn blocking into repetition, mostly by adding voluntary repetition stuttering into your spee...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
2 points

I’m trying to give myself time and I literally get less stutter but still whenever I’m under pressure....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
2 points

It does get better. You'll get more confident as you grow older and you'll be faster and more natural with word switches when you encounter words that you struggle with. It is stressful to have to rep...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
1 points

I could imagine that coming with a variety of downsides. While I want to be able to speak my mind, I’d ruin lots of relationships if everything that came to mind was vocalized lmao. Also I don’t know...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
1 points

True and i am a muslim so it will be hard for me to get married because in our society men are supposed to be masculine and be leaders . So i am cooked ,because i suck at ordering things or about ask...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
2 points

In a just world, that route would be logical, but I learned how to play the game until I reached my ultimate goal....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
3 points

No, I didn't cancel the appointment. But I didn't agree to do the procedure we agreed on (tooth extraction) because I have to wait a long time for a new one, 1-2 months. So I wanted to offer her to tr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
6 points

If your struggle is talking with a listener but you are able to articulate perfectly when alone, then practicing the easy thing will not make a bit of difference. Always confused when someone says it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment