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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
55 points

You are really fucking brave, in a good way! Thats why I think you are absolutely have what it takes to do the hard work that will dramatically reduce those hard, blocks filled with all kinds of stru...

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postr/StutterOct 3, 2024
220 points

What my stutter sounds like

What my stutter sounds like Hi everyone, this is a recording of what my stutter sounds like. This is all the words I could get out but I wanted to add in there that I’m staying positive about my job h...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
0 points

10000% I second this. I have never let my stutter control my life. I am married to a very hot wife, my high school sweetheart. All of my friends wanted to date her but I’m the one who convinced her. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
1 points

Turn it into a joke. Tell her something funny like "oh I'm sorry I'm speaking like I'm having a rock in my mouth" or "I'm trying to stop it but I can't, maybe my tongue is doing dancing all on its own...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
1 points

Honestly I look at the people with a stutter that achieved the most with their lives to help me have the confidence I need. President Biden, Emily Blunt, Steve Harvey, Saweetie(rapper), and so many mo...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
2 points

Thank you for this, just found this group because my stutter has started getting worse again after some years of being mostly fluent and I was feeling frustrated, this was a great message to see right...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
3 points

This is a great point. People are mimetic in conversations and will respond to how the other person presents. If you feel uncomfortable, they will too. And almost all of it is tone and body language, ...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
1 points

If she doesn't accept the stutter then she isn't the one for you. Every woman I've dated accepted it and loved me even more that I had adversity to over come it. The real woman of your dreams will com...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
2 points

Prior military here, recently married, and about to join the work force in Dec after finishing my degree here, so the same experiences as OP. He’s spot on, people are emotional animals, and they tend ...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
1 points

Hold up so the woman of your dreams is a woman that won't like you because of something you can't control? It's time to re-evaluate your dream...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
0 points

Thank you for this. I've been in my head a lot recently. Despite that, I faced the fear in many ways, and this post is the cherry on top. Good things happen when you stand your ground against fear. An...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
6 points

Dam harsh but that’s true. You weren’t sugar coating it like most would. I wouldn’t want a man that complained about his stutter. If a woman didn’t like you, she would’ve hung up the phone immediately...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
13 points

Tell her you feel how you feel about it. Nothing destroys awkwardness like straight talk. You have nothing to lose and apparently, the woman of your dreams to gain....

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
28 points

100% this - I was lucky to grow up with a dad who stutters and there was a kid in my grade from 3-12th grade who stuttered worse than me and never did speech therapy. He was super confident, played on...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
-16 points

Fuck my life, why r u moving like finding a partner whilst having a stutter is the same difficulty as being a convicted pedophile. Can u idiots so called “men”. Wake up and stop blaming ur dumbass stu...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
7 points

Did u tell her straight up that u stutter and if she has an issue wit it. If u did, n she said she ain’t mind. Then ur chilling. Dont b a bitch and don’t be a child. Be a man and confident. If she fuc...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
39 points

If she doesn’t want you because you struggle talking on the phone, she isn’t the woman of your dreams. Chin up bud no matter what happens...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
10 points

I feel you there, but the way I look at it is this. There is easily 2 Billion women out there in the world and only 1 of them has to take chance on you. You got this. Stay strong and keep rocking…...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
1 points

We got this! Yeah the accepting has its ups and down. Im going to speech therapy for the first time since like elementary school. The Stutter still has a strong mental block with just out right approa...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
1 points

I’m approaching people like you left to right, I have long blocks, and 90% have been great interactions, I kid you not. Right now I’m facing a bit of a hard time with accepting, there’s longer blocks ...

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