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postr/StutterOct 12, 2022
40 points

is your stutter getting in the way of you accomplishing your dreams?

is your stutter getting in the way of you accomplishing your dreams? For me personally yes its getting in the way but i will overcome my stutter one day💪🏾...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2022
1 points

Accounting student, but it's very hard to study, I try, but I'm always on the verge of being expelled due to poor academic performance. I am 100% a humanitarian and have never understood mathematics. ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencySchool & Academic LifeIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
1 points

Yea bro, I think what’s happening is that you felt so rushed to speak and pressured, that all your thoughts couldn’t be expressed at once. And it created a bottle-neck effect, where your words couldn’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger+2 more
postr/StutterOct 10, 2022
8 points

How you don't care about the stutter?

How you don't care about the stutter? When you break-up with your bf/gf or he/she breaks up with you, you know what you need to do in order to get through it: take distance and take time to yourself, ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
4 points

I wasn't really refering to his forgeting of words or changing of words and sentences. I was refering to his awkward body movements(not facial).His forgeting that a person was deceased. Statements of ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationMedicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
1 points

Thanks for your comment. Somehow I tend to feel disappointed that I could feel myself tense up and block up severely again when I need to answer a friendly question. I'm retired now and live on my ow...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentGenetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
1 points

I'm reading it, it applies to me. I don't stutter at home when I'm on my own. I stutter even when visiting my family but not while alone. Now I'm in a bad period, about a year. I'm retired. I didn't ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Genetic & Family FactorsAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
1 points

I'm inclined to think that's in my case it's anxiety and discouraged feeling that I will stutter on the word I want to say. Then it feels like panic so substitute words would not help. When I'm at hom...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightGenetic & Family Factors+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
1 points

I moved to Texas and spent three years in a speech course doing all the things you say and more, for three years! And I tried everything else. My whole life has been dedicated to fixing this problem. ...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
3 points

Oddly enough my stutter has never really impacted me relationship wise, in every other aspect of my life it has, esp career wise, the job I wanted to do I could not, I've ended up my whole life g...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2022
2 points

That is my biggest worry that I will end up alone. I haven't met anyone that would like me despite being otherwise equal to my peers who all have GFs without a problem. No wonder, men have to be verba...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 8, 2022
31 points

i just want to stop stuttering

i just want to stop stuttering everytime i go out or try to talk to someone new i end up stuttering and look like an idiot and i just end up doing everything to avoid talking to people im 16 right now...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2022
45 points

It's a battle within. Stuttering is a curse. Stuttering is a blessing some report. It's always held me back or the powers at be see it as a weakness and hold you back....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2022
5 points

Let me give you a longer answer. I think you are looking at this the wrong way, it sounds like to me that you think stuttering should keep you quiet. That is not accepting the stutter, that's the pola...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2022
2 points

Hey, home alone is a great time to talk! I try to talk to myself a lot, because I’m mostly fluent when alone. I hope your job situation works out. Being jobless can be freeing and scary. Family for ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Experiential AssociationHelplessness & AgencyFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2022
3 points

This honestly doesn't make much sense to me. If you have to push to get your words out, then that is a specific trait of the way you stutter and the effort you need to put in to break a block. You p...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 6, 2022
88 points

Just had another interview

Just had another interview They didn’t make fun of me or end the interview immediately, but I can tell it ruined my chances. I’m a 40 year old man, and I’m crying right now because I just want to be...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySadness & HopelessnessEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2022
1 points

That stutterer might have bad experience with people being a*hole to him and they became so fed up they happen to be a*hole at you. That's not a good thing to do but maybe they just reached their ment...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2022
2 points

I mean I can understand why that person may be a**hole. Having a stutter can be frustrating that can cause a lot of negative emotions within one self. Most of us learn to have a healthier mindset abou...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2022
2 points

>Most do not even notice it as a “difference/problem”, and IMO, that’s the main reason is goes away. It just evaporates bc it gets no attention. Definitely, I agree. You said that they are unawa...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency