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postr/StutterNov 16, 2022
6 points

Why do I have to call companies to ask a few questions?

Why do I have to call companies to ask a few questions? Currently, I am a sophomore at highschool and I am going though speech therapy. I'm often comfortable about my stuttering because I simply see i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2022
2 points

Good way to look at it. I just have tremendous anxiety where it controls my life a good amount of time. I'd like to live care free. Also I guess I have a pretty good job so I don't really need extra m...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2022
0 points

Wtf are you saying bro, stuttering is a choice. Your committed to it subconsciously. Stop being a bitch and start trying to get rid of it. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and stop expecting people to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
3 points

Might be unpopular: Things can only limit your life if you let it. Do I stammer when I give a lecture, of course. But, I know while in the very small short-term it sucks, the long-term goal is there...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
2 points

Your song is great. I have to admit that it made me feel sad, i have tried so hard to learn to sing in tune but i cant. Have played the guitar since i was 9 (i am 27 now) and i am so límited, i cant d...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencySuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
1 points

I'm felling Im slowly getting drived crazy by it, I just want to not lose my hope in being fluently, I also wanna be fluently as fast as I can, stammer has limited to much my life till now...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
13 points

I hate how being a stammer limits my life, you're not alone...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2022
8 points

I know what you mean, growing up I've always been seen as "the quiet one" but inside I've sooo much to say, but I just can't say it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 14, 2022
48 points

I hate how awkward I am because of stutter

I hate how awkward I am because of stutter [deleted]...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
4 points

Self acceptance isn’t bullshit, sorry you feel that way. Don’t drive yourself crazy trying to willpower the stutter away...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
1 points

It’s possible stuttering is your only worry. But due to the nature of your obsession with stuttering, I would assume you may have a tendency to worry a lot in general. I recommend reading “Redefining...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Research & ResourcesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
6 points

Avoid talking is because of the stutter, anxiety is because of stutter, lack of confidence is cause of me stutter, if my speech sudently become normal I am 101% that I wouldn't have any of those probl...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
7 points

Well one thing you need to think about is that your stuttering is often separate from various other behaviors. So you need to know what you define “stuttering ruining your life.” If you avoid speaki...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterNov 14, 2022
11 points

How far a person with stammer can improve theyself to speak like a fluently person?

How far a person with stammer can improve theyself to speak like a fluently person? I don't care how much effort do I need to put in it and I will never agree with this bullshit of self aceptance, if ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2022
2 points

Thanks for the post, specially because you are cured and it would be easy to forget us who still can't say our names :) . I always wondered if overcoming the stutter would make you a very extrovert pe...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2022
3 points

I know that feeling. It happens to me sometimes. Every time something like that happens it makes me feel powerless. Especially in the work place....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2022
3 points

I deeply struggle with this too. It's so hard to accept! It's far too embarrassing to openly block and stutter in front of people, as it can be a really vicious limitation. I struggle with feeling jud...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2022
2 points

I am afraid as hell about going in any profissional career, that sucks a lot when you have dreams and don't know If you can achieve them just cause of stuttering...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2022
2 points

It fells so bad to us to have to fight ten times more to achieve something that is basic to everyone and sometimes don't even get the result we deserve People don't get the amount and the severety o...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2022
31 points

i've been in this place so many, many, many times. when these convos happen and i inevitably feel like a pile of dirt afterwards for being unable to properly communicate, i try to forget about it and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency