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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
2 points

I stutter a lot with my parents. With my friends, i may be just good at hiding it or not but imo i stutter less, especially with strangers.....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
5 points

At home i have the feeling im dropping my guard and the stutters get multiple times worse. In public/with strangers i subconsciously try to stutter less...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
1 points

Hey there, thanks for the comment. Yes, i guess i should just push through this.. it's not like i have i life anyway so yeah.. Goodluck to me and goodluck to you too on transitioning into development....

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

You seem to have a bit of dis fluency. You becoming very conscious of it, and being worried about it, makes the speech more dis fluent. Don’t be bothered about it, minor disfluency wouldnt matter much...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
4 points

>How do I prevent this from getting worse? Don't so things to try to hide or avoid stuttering. It will make it worse and create secondary behaviors will can generalize and make speech more struggl...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
1 points

I worded that part a bit wrong. It’s possible and very common with a stutter, but not possible if you fully take control of your stutter, which requires the not caring what others think, putting yours...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

You don’t think it’s possible to misunderstood or misrepresent yourself with a stutter? Gosh I feel like constantly switching out words for synonyms, changing phrasing, tone or even topics means that...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

I feel that unless you have an extremely severe stutter it is not that possible to be misunderstood or misrepresent yourself. If you’re being misunderstood or misrepresenting yourself it might just be...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
1 points

This is what I struggle with - how do you deal with the trigger of not being understood/misrepresenting yourself? I think for me that’s a big hurdle. You seem like an intelligent person - how do you r...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

I’m someone who has worked in an IT operations role (help desk) for roughly 4 years but I do plan on transitioning into a development role in the future. With that being said I stuttered and had to an...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

Regarding your first question, there was a bit of hypocrisy in me suggesting that you transform your mindset, since I myself haven’t fully accomplished that yet, only made some considerable progress. ...

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

Thank you for your response - how did you manage to transform your mindset regarding your stutter? For a lot of the opportunities that have been offered to me, it would be reckless to accept them (i...

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postr/StutterApr 22, 2023
4 points

Strategy to reduce anticipation anxiety & checklist

Strategy to reduce anticipation anxiety & checklist # Strategy: **Situation**: If we speak a feared word, then we often anticipate negative listeners responses or anticipate stuttering. Non-stut...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
7 points

Never try to conceal ur stutter put it in your boss face or hold it over his head I hate to use this word but technically we have a disability it would be illegal for them to not hire us as a fellow s...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
2 points

I have a stutter and am pretty happy with my life on the whole, and the parts I'm unhappy about aren't related to stuttering. I love my job and interview very well. So it's absolutely possible. That ...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
1 points

Especially if the first round screening interview is on the phone, I will tell them something similar to what's been said above, explain what it is and that's it's not the phone line cutting out or so...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
4 points

I work in telecommunications. I've been here for just over a year and I've got a mild stutter. Its an excellent job for the qualifications and work required. My stutter has been getting worse recentl...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
6 points

I can confirm that this really, really helps. The script I personally use is: >(As you may have noticed), I have a speech disorder - I stutter. It's usually pretty mild but acts up sometimes. If y...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
3 points

No. Tbh, I always try to conceal it. I feel like if I tell them I stutter in interviews, I’ll get discriminated against and miss out on the job...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
4 points

This is very cool! I've noticed the approachability resulting from increased vulnerability as well. A few years ago, I managed to build up the courage to actually mention my stutter in introductions, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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