Search

commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
5 points

I'm also a guy (who stutters) and my fiance is a person who stutters too. I've been on dates with other women prior to my current relationship..what I would usually do is advertise early on, something...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Advice RequestsDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
8 points

I love your story! What are the odds of that happening? I’m happy to know that you guys have lasted so long together. Thank you so much for the advice. :)...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
19 points

I’m also a female who stutters! And my singular dating experience was definitely an interesting one/a life changing one. To make a long story short, my current boyfriend and I went to high school toge...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
3 points

I don’t find it sexy but if it’s in everyday conversation I think I can be patient if it’s not too frequent. Not sure how I’d feel about it during sex. I don’t know how I feel about it in general. Try...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
2 points

I just wanted to ask people on this thread for their own experiences. Kind of just wondering what to expect. Not really something I wanna ask on a first date...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Advice RequestsDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
3 points

Tell me how it goes. I honestly has the mentality that stuttering just isn't sexy. But hey, if you're.. getting to it.. then more power to you!...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
6 points

Shouldn’t happen when moaning, that’s not really speaking. I’m surprisingly fluent during sex, more so than anywhere else. Not sure about other stutterers....

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Situational VariabilityDating & Romance
postr/StutterJan 2, 2020
4 points

Sex and stuttering

Sex and stuttering Hello! I am not a stutterer for the most part but I am thinking of going on a date with someone who is. I was curious if when you talk during sex if it comes out more or if it happe...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2019
4 points

17 was probably the worst age for me as far as stuttering. Every day was a struggle, especially with anxiety. I was really quiet, could barely get any words out, had few friends, etc. I went back to s...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2019
2 points

I havent met anyone with a stutter and im so grateful that this thread exists I am 17yo male with not so bad stutter, i block on maybe half my words and sometimes i get that repetition of syllables (t...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesRepetitions & ProlongationsPreparation & Rehearsal+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2019
1 points

Fantastic to hear, do you mind if I ask if you stammer around him when you are on your own? I'm terms of myself and my girlfriend at the start of the relationship I would feel the stammer coming on a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
4 points

Such bad advice. When a person is actively seeking a mate they pick up on every little thing, as a stammerer, this comes off in your confidence (inwardly and outwardly) so she will know something is u...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
5 points

How old are you guys? no joke this is how I thought when I was young but at 21 I got the luckyest break of my life and met a girl who gave me the time to talk to her and I worked on my speech so much ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
3 points

Sucks to hear but only thing you can do is move on and hope the next will be better. As another user mentioned as well, drinking is a great option. I usually have a drink before going on a date (or an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & SubstancesSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
4 points

Just went on a date and told him beforehand about my stutter. I think the date went okay and he was really reassuring, but I completely understand. It just utterly sucks, but one day man you’ll find s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
8 points

I always mention my stutter before a date. I mean, Its not like I can hide it anyway. If you have a mild stutter then you can hide it. Dates require me to be either drunk or pop a Valium. I usually s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2019
20 points

I have an upcoming date and I wasn’t planning on mentioning it beforehand or even addressing it on the date, but maybe I should. Usually I just try to hide my stutter on dates... I don’t really know h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterDec 13, 2019
60 points

Had a bad date a few days ago, and it's still on my mind

Had a bad date a few days ago, and it's still on my mind I was stuttering like crazy, blocking at nearly every sentence. It was the worst it has ever been, I could barely be myself. She texted me aft...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2019
2 points

I think it’s an advantage. It offers something unique and adds to the experience. The goal of a strip club is to get away and think about something else for a while and a cute stripper who stutters co...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2019
2 points

Stutter here, i feel you man, i couldn't continue my master degree because of my stutter afraid of the presentation i have to do at the end of the year, during university i only did one project presen...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more