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postr/StutterFeb 26, 2020
1 points

Hypocrite By Nature

Hypocrite By Nature I really get annoyed when people reiterate its bothers me to no end which is hypocritical of me because being a person who stutters i say the same thing over and over again repeate...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2020
1 points

I annoy myself when I stutter. I’m sure others feel the same way....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2020
1 points

I had an ex who, in very serious situations, would start laughing at my stutter. She always said she loved it and how cute of a face I made when trying to get the words out, but by the end it was “you...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2020
1 points

I see that you are fighting your stutter and that good and some times you will defeat it, I'm so sure because to live with it, all life is really a hell🙂...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2020
2 points

I feel the same way sometimes, a lotta times. I go to speech therapy. But it doesn’t work in real world situations. I find myself feeling like why am I doing this? What’s the point in this curse if a ...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2020
1 points

Yes, indeed, it is so frustrating but I still have hope to cope with my stutter. Thank you for your response....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2020
4 points

I am a stutter myself this is how i feel everyday, living with stutter is hard, it’s mentally exhausting, and frustrating all the time, try to bring in much positivity all the time for coping with dep...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 24, 2020
13 points

Need some advice

Need some advice I don't know how to start but I'll try my best. First of all sorry for my English. I'm a 26 years old male who has a stutter. I've been struggling with this since early childhood an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2020
3 points

I understand that completely. My stutter is at an awful point lately and although my mum has never out rightly said it, I could just see she was getting they point of "spit it out" which is one of the...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerListener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2020
1 points

I’m pretty fluent when talking to myself and even more when I speak to my dog. I’ve found breathing exercises and calming myself helps a lot. I’m even more fluent when I’m angry and yell. I have a lo...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
1 points

Yikes, those people are really rude and impatient. Glad I’ve only had to deal with very few of these ignorant types. I have a severe stutter (with long blocks) as well. Maybe it’s a geographical/cultu...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
3 points

I know exactly how you feel. I was pre-law and my stutter took control and I switched majors from pre-law to Psychology. At 40, I stopped fighting my stutter and released the anger, shame and guil...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
1 points

My dad has always tried to get me to call the vet for him, call the bank, call to order a pizza, etc. I freeze up and he gets angry I won’t call for him, which immediately makes me very stressed out a...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2020
6 points

I was a cashier at a grocery store. Keep in mind I’m 17 and was 16 at the time, and to see adults tease or laugh my stutter when trying to make small talk was super disheartening. People are just assh...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2020
9 points

Well once I was ordering at Starbucks and there was a big line behind me. I stuttered on my order and the workers started to laugh at me, it was so embarrassing, i get how you feel....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2020
13 points

Working at Starbucks

Working at Starbucks So I've had a stutter for my entire life but I've learned how to somewhat manage it. Well I work at Starbucks and I've had a problem with customers laughing at me while trying to ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2020
2 points

Stuttering’s a very difficult thing, that’s something all stutterers can agree on lol. The hypothesis and advice helps me out a lot though, calling the tension a “brick wall” is a wonderful analogy. ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Propositionality & WeightAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2020
10 points

I’m sorry :( working in customer service is one of the hardest jobs to do. Being berated by hungry people all day can really get you down- even if you don’t have a stutter. You are SUCH a strong perso...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerHiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterFeb 15, 2020
39 points

I hate where I work

I hate where I work I hate McDonald’s so much ( I do it with college btw) . So many customers laugh at me while I really struggle to talk. ( I do the front areas so clean tables etc. ) and then you g...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2020
2 points

I understand your point of view. My stutter was caused by a traumatic dog attack at the age of 5. I did blame the dog in my teen years but all that anger only yielded ulcers and migraines. I neve...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation