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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2021
4 points

Screams like an opportunity to work on those anxieties. 'anxiety' isn't a personality trait that is carved forever in your persona. It's something that can be fixed ;)...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2021
1 points

If you don’t let your stutter both you then it won’t bother anyone else. “It’s only a big deal if you make it a big deal” Good luck...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
4 points

"You should be a monster, an absolute monster, and then you should learn how to control it." - Jordan Peterson "Losing your temper is a sign of weakness." - Jocko Willink. Check out these two peop...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
3 points

Stop arguing. It's rare that an argument ends in a positive outcome. Don't get me wrong. I like to argue. But truth is, I'd probably have more friends if I argued less. IDK what is to be gained by w...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
1 points

Yup, ain't that the truth! People have been telling me all the time that its not a big deal, but it wasn't until I saw it in action that the switch flipped. A few social instances where my stutter was...

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Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2021
1 points

That switch you described was the biggest key for me too. It’s infuriating because you can’t just apply it no matter how good is it described, it will come when your mind eventually decides....

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2021
3 points

Good list Something else that's helped me a bunch as of late is to be less critical of myself and not care as much. I realized people don't really care if I talk fluently or not. Why should I care ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2021
6 points

Just a hypothesis as I’ve never experienced depression myself, but a large part of stuttering for some people is caring too much about what other people think. Depression could be the opposite extreme...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2021
11 points

Honestly, it's not about how other stutterers accept these statements from their peers. You feel a certain way about this. How you feel about your stutter is specific to you. I think a lot of us ha...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2021
4 points

I felt like this now I’m 21 and I think I’ve got it worked out, I just own it. Stuttering gets so much easier when you own it....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2021
2 points

It’s inspiring when people can shove their insecurities to one side and still make the talk. Check out Megan Washington’s TedTalk on stuttering. She still managed to captivate the audience and nailed ...

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Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
postr/StutterDec 18, 2021
12 points

The reason it is so hard to change how you express yourself IMO

The reason it is so hard to change how you express yourself IMO Learning to be more expressive and honest in my communication, being a person who stutters, was one of the hardest things I’ve ever don...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2021
2 points

I am happy for You but I have one comment for that. I used to feel that way. It's OK to stutter and I shoudn't be ashamed. But such a mindset lowers my focus and all the exercises and practice I did f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2021
3 points

Lean into how good it feels to convey what you want to say, and you'll be fine anytime that stutter happens to happen....

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2021
7 points

For me, it was a very long and basically unconciously changing journey, so I couldn’t find any “hotfix” for it. After a point in my life I’ve started to be around people that were intelligent enough n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2021
2 points

I belong to a toastmasters group and it has raised my confidence. I feel like giving speeches is my thing now and I actually look forward to it! It has helped me focus on other areas of speech prepa...

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Mindset shiftSchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2021
3 points

Maybe practice what you want to say while singing it. I pretty much never stutter when I am singing, and I sing to practice presentations and stuff. Also, don’t think about stuttering as much as possi...

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commentr/StutterDec 11, 2021
8 points

It helps with becoming comfortable with yourself and knowing yourself more which results in less care about others and the by product being you stuttering less...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2021
3 points

take a deep breath and say: "fck it, I'm tired of it all, no matter what I do, there's always going to be some mtherfcker to remind me that I stutter somehow and it's going to put me down. So fuck i...

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Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2021
2 points

Yea, that’s good. Make sure that you’re not just winning arguments just to make yourself feel prideful. It will put a lot of pressure on you. Just argue to make the world a better place if someone is ...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift