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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
3 points

My partner's have been very understanding. Like others have mentioned, the attraction stemmed from other things and the Stutter was never seen as a barrier to relationships. I was in an eight year r...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
1 points

omg hun i feel you, but don’t ever avoid trying! my stutter is fairly severe too (which has been painfully pointed out by a lot of people on campus) and it tends to get worse as i get older. anyway, i...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
4 points

I’ve done that for the past couple first dates I’ve been on and they always say something along the lines of “oh it’s cool” and/or “i’ve never met someone like that” and it’s safe to say there has not...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
8 points

22 and never had a girlfriend. I have a very severe stuttering so i don't even try. Hope you find someone though...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
4 points

Affected? I would be lying if I said it didn't. Being more outgoing would definitely help there. But I met a lot of people that don't really care. As long as you do not give the impression that you ne...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
-1 points

Can confirm, my gf is a 10/10 and has never had an issue with my stutter....

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
10 points

I can pretty confidently say that every attempt I've made to talk to a girl has been shot down as a direct result of my stutter. Granted, that's only two attempts. But it kinda crushed any and all des...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
2 points

I get where you’re coming from. I was always really self conscious about my stutter while going on dates. What’s helped me is not being shy about the fact that I stutter. I usually let the person know...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
11 points

Rule 1: learn to love yourself Everything else will come after you achieve this. Personally as a 20M with a mild stutter (was worst when I was younger) all I've gotta say is; learn to love yourself ...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
20 points

There was this girl at work who rly liked me and she thought my stutter was cute. Imo if they are already attracted to you for other reasons (looks, personality, activities ur involved in) then ur stu...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
16 points

It's been hard. When I've tried I've been rejected. Now I'm too scared to even try. But, I am not desperate though. I kind of start to enjoy my own solitude. I think it's important to know that life g...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
2 points

Interesting question! Personally I'm shy and sometimes awkward, but when it comes down to it, I love chatting with others! And I feel like I'd enjoy it even more if my stutter didn't hold me back....

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postr/StutterApr 19, 2020
33 points

How has stuttering affected your dating life?

How has stuttering affected your dating life? hey y'all! it's my first post here (19F), and i've really been thinking a lot about this lately since all my family members and friends are relentlessly a...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
3 points

The relationship was great we were together for 7yrs she made me a better person I remember when we started dating I used to feel so confident around her but as time went on my stutter even became wor...

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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
1 points

Yeah I feel the same way. Question - how did the relationship work? Because in addition to all of this stuff, I also really worry about not being able to protect my girl... I avoid long term relations...

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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2020
6 points

I met a girl who had a stutter like me, it took while for introduce myself to her, but everything went well, we spoke about school stuff, she was cute, i wish I could get her number, I wish I could sp...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2020
1 points

Well, im married, so my wife snd i go on dates every once in a while. We're homebodies, so enjoying each other's company is really nice. Its weird tho, all the women I've dated have never been worri...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2020
3 points

How’s your dating life? I’m not concerned about my career whatsoever, but man oh man am I dreading dying alone......

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postr/StutterMar 9, 2020
17 points

Date advice

Date advice Hey everybody I'm 26 male. So on Friday I'm going on a date for a first time after a while, I won't lie not sure about my communication skills because obviously years of stuttering, it def...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2020
2 points

Thanks for sharing your experience. I went through the same thing all through high school. It's tough. There's nothing I can tell you that will magically take away your fears and allow you to talk wit...

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