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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2021
2 points

If you don't mind me wo say like that, I'd say changing words is the dumbest strategy to avoid stutter, because not only will changin words be in vain in extremises like telling your name, telling you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2021
4 points

I feel that some of you are taking the "hidding" part as a negative. Im completely upfront with my stuttering problem. Just because I try to speak normally doesnt mean im ashamed. Im just simply stati...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 31, 2021
41 points

Hiding your stutter

Hiding your stutter Dont you think its funny when you speak with someone for a week or two and you were able to hide your stutter. All of a sudden you are stuttering and they are joking with you, tell...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2021
3 points

I know exactly what you mean, and I'm a block stutterer as well. Sometimes I feel like with friends and strangers I'm more confident or at least I'm playing a character who's more confident than my no...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2021
1 points

Try not to dwell at all on your stutter. Focus on the message, what you want to say, the answers to questions, etc, don't even give the stutter a second thought. I know it's easier said than done bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2021
1 points

I feel like it has to deal with a lack of self conviction to who you are and holding it back because a lot of people who stutter don’t do so when they’re really angry and convinced about their stance....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2021
2 points

The mindset to not dwell on the stutter and give much of a damn helped a lot, to really really not dwell on it at all, before, after, during, all of it! But it didn't help me realize how to fully con...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2021
4 points

Yes, this is quite common. Many of us learn to adapt to our native language in order to stutter less. When you are learning a new language you are learning a bunch of new sounds and ways of moving you...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingSituational Variability
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2021
2 points

I have the exact opposite, I’m more fluent in English than my mother tongue (which is Dutch). I have know idea what it is but maybe because I’m more confident in English or something??...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2021
2 points

Mind over stutter. Reminds me of a friend who also stutters and he stutters openly but i can see it just doesn't fase him and he carries on. That approach or out look on your stutter helped you overco...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2021
2 points

I'm 14 and just take a deep breath and speak but I usually speak while moving my hands so I can express what I'm trying to say. I know a lot of people say this but just act like u met the girl/guy bef...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2021
1 points

That’s very true, it’s still tough and I catch myself trying to hide it and my next step is to stop that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2021
2 points

The faster you realize this the easier it’ll be. I’m still struggling with it and it’s easier said than done but try your best to actually mean this and realize it!...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterOct 26, 2021
17 points

Discussion on: How Alex was able to overcome his social anxiety, and how I was able to use this same mindset to no longer hide from my stutter

Discussion on: How Alex was able to overcome his social anxiety, and how I was able to use this same mindset to no longer hide from my stutter ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2021
1 points

This is very true, the problem with the human mind... is we remember negative things far more than positive things. 1 bad interaction can have a huge impact, but multiple good interaction barely have ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2021
4 points

I’m 17 and I’m a cashier and have to talk a lot sometimes over the radio so it can be tough but it’s helping. A girl I work with dyed her hair and I told her I liked it and when I did I stutter and sa...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2021
1 points

I'm just hitting this realization now at the age of 32. There are some social interactions as of late that I've completely botched because of my stutter, but the end results turned out to be more than...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 26, 2021
50 points

I think the judgment I face from my stutter is mostly my own judgement

I think the judgment I face from my stutter is mostly my own judgement 99% of people don’t treat me any different because of my stutter and yet I always felt people thought of me less for it. Of cours...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2021
4 points

You pretty much said exactly how I feel. People don’t really know the true me because of how many walls I put up to prevent a stutter. Guess this view isn’t uncommon among stutterers, so it’s at least...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2021
5 points

You're not ridiculous for feeling that way, when it is less severe I often wonder whether is was ever actually 'bad', until it gets worse then I feel even more like a twat for thinking that in the fir...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking