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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
1 points

Stuttering can become very severe if you are in big tension and don't know what to do immediately. If the bus you are planning to board in leaving in next 20 mins and the queue of people standing in l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
1 points

Yes it happened overnight! And each day seems to be worse than the last! But today I’m feeling much more capable of helping him with this. I am a FAST talker… so are his siblings. And we’re all fairly...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Energy & Biological RhythmsAvoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
1 points

Those are all helpful suggestions in general but OP is describing a very specific thing - having a fear response around speaking, and engaging in frequent word switching and avoidance in order to not ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2025
2 points

If your main way to handle blocks is to switch or avoid words, it’s very common for you to struggle the most with the letter that begins your name - bc you *cannot* switch or avoid it in most situati...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating StutteringFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterJan 17, 2025
9 points

Stutter help in the UK, can’t say a full sentence anymore

Stutter help in the UK, can’t say a full sentence anymore I had private speech therapy when I was younger, the NHS waiting list was long then and if I remember we didn’t have enough time in appointm...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterJan 17, 2025
2 points

Online language learning

Online language learning Hello! I’m thinking about starting to have lessons to improve my English. I found some platforms like Cambly and Italki. My problem is that when I speak English I stutter A L...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
2 points

I have the same issue. My name starts with K and I can’t tell you how much I DREAD introducing myself, especially in a meeting/large group. Like the comment above, I usually try to say a very long sen...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
3 points

My name isn't Dylan, but my tongue hates that letter too. Sometimes I can throw an 'um' in before a D word and that will help, or use a soft 'T'. The letter substitution works if you do it quickly. I ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
4 points

My name's Dylan too. I can't say my name either lol. What I've found somewhat easier for me is saying a whole sentence, with my name being at the very end. Sometimes it works, other times it doesn't. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionRoles & Performance
postr/StutterJan 16, 2025
5 points

The letter D

The letter D Hi all. To summarize my backstory with stuttering: I’ve stuttered since I was about 7 or 8 My stutter was mild, not even, during highschool/college My stutter got to its worse (where...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
2 points

I guess I would be scared that if the stutter is gone I wouldn't rely on making art and music to express my feelings... and I would definitely miss that....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
2 points

Sorry that your going thru this you are not alone we are all here for you I’m 35 and I remember school days having to present yourself was my worst nightmare but guess what I made it thru and so will ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
2 points

I remember when my stutter was really bad in middle school I'd show people my key chain that has my name on it that I got from vacation somewhere. Girls wear their names on necklaces don't they? I thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
3 points

Like people would figure out I do in 2 seconds anyway, it would make people scared to talk to me, but telling people that don't catch on works....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
3 points

It's almost like if you put a bumper sticker that says "new driver" on your car, people might be more mean to you, right? It's only recently that I tried to admit to new people upfront that I have a s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
3 points

Agreed specifically at places that’s not needed but again if it takes the anxiety away and helps then by all means wear it whenever u feel like it… let’s just normalize this same way society has norma...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
2 points

I think something like a name tag pin can be cute, it's common in workplaces. It's helpful if you intend to introduce yourself and talk to people, I wouldn't wear it ALL the time lol....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJan 15, 2025
13 points

I'm just so so fed up

I'm just so so fed up I'm 17 and had one when I was 1-7 I had one then It stopped, then cause of bullying. When i was like 11 I was bullied so badly I bacame mute for a year and ever since I had a s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
1 points

I belive, the more I think about my stutter and the more power (spending thoughts on it) I give it, the stronger and worse it becomes. Do you stutter if you record yourself and just talk nonsense? If ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2025
1 points

Haha thanks! I really appreciate it. I am actually the same; when I think of an exact word that I need to say I get stuck, but when I just freeflow words I can say them with no issue. Give it a try, I...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution