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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
1 points

Just own it. Sure, it will make some people not want to date you, but those people would probably find another reason to not date you anyways. When I was dating, the first thing I would tell them was...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
1 points

I’ve had girlfriends but my stutter messed up my confidence so I’d hold back emotionally and physically. That mindset ruined my relationships not my stutter...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
1 points

My relationships never were influenced by my stutter. They saw me as the person that i am and they didnt care about the stutter. If someone rejects you because of your stutter than it says everythin...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
1 points

Confidence is applicable to courtship. I would add though, being comfortable with it and yourself defeats all hang ups you or others may have about it. And with that comes confidence in a cool albeit...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
1 points

It has an effect on it. As men are expected to always always always make the first move and when we do we get put down immediately...

Social & Relationships
Power Dynamics & IntimidationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
1 points

Have had two girlfriends by now. Both were happy, healthy relationships. You can do it, friend. I'm rooting for you!...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
2 points

Stuttered through every date, and every hookup in the early 2000s. Found the girl of my dreams (I view myself as a 4/10.. she is a 11/10) and married her. That was 13 years ago, it has never been a pr...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
1 points

I have had a stutter my whole life and ive came to the conclusion that most people really dont care about it, ive had multiple girlfriends that have found it "cute" just need to put yourself out there...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
0 points

I find attracting people easy. I’m decent looking. I have a stutter....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
1 points

I’ve never had trouble getting boyfriends, however when I was a teenager or in my early 20s I would do anything I could to hide my stutter, even with my boyfriends. I would never call them on the phon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
2 points

No it doesn't. It makes it harder but not impossible. I'm a very severe stutterer and have had a few relationships and my current one has been going for 3 years now....

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
3 points

Stuttering, especially if you are open to talking about it, is a good-faith show of vulnerability that tends to make others feels safe about sharing the deeper-level aspects of their own humanity. M...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
5 points

You CAN be confident with a stutter and you WILL find love one day. As a life long stutterer I get how you feel, especially with the confidence bit, but it is possible even if it isn't easy. Keep your...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
2 points

I'm 22, I stutter since I was a baby and I'm currently with the best girl I could have ever dreamed of since two and a half years. She was attracted to me and I stuttered on our first date without hav...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
3 points

I am 19 and never had I problem finding girls. When I was 13 I had my first kiss with a 16 year old since I was premature for my age. Most girls don’t even notice my stutter that much because I hide ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
41 points

Nope. Happily married with two children. Own your stutter. If someone has a problem with it they are not for you....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
26 points

I'm a lifelong stutterer and I have a beautiful loving wife who has no problem with my stuttering. There is no trick or some mysteriously thing that you are missing. There will be someone there for ...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
postr/StutterOct 25, 2020
54 points

Does stuttering prevent you from finding love?

Does stuttering prevent you from finding love? I’m 24 and still haven’t had a girlfriend. know confidence is attractive and all, but I can’t be confident because I can’t talk properly. No one seems to...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
3 points

I’ve had this told to me a number of times. Just go with it. The passions of heart are clouded in mystery. Or rather, don’t take words too literally. Feelings and being and being together is the langu...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
3 points

People find all sorts of things cute. I think my girlfriend, with all her quirks, is cute. She thinks that I, including my stutter, am cute. Come to think of it, every former girlfriend either didn't ...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance