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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2025
17 points

The solution is to stop caring what others think. You are a person and deserve to be respected. If someone does not respect you for how you speak, their opinion does not matter....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2025
2 points

Hi there. Does she know you stutter? Gotta shoot your shot, be damned what people think....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2025
7 points

>I’ve considered going to therapy but it feels useless because I’m not a typical patient. Get therapy. You are a typical patient. There are two key parts of therapy, the first is cognitive which gets...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2025
3 points

Best option is the find people online. In real life there is a chance but you will go through so much abuse and mockery that is not worth it. Try finding a reddit page of your country or city and sta...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & BelongingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2025
2 points

Thanks mate. I actually did end up introducing myself to someone at the book store. I was sweating bullets for 30 minutes prior and promptly, as expected, stuttered like anything when I went up to tal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2025
1 points

It’s illegal of them to discriminate because of your stutter—ESPECIALLY if you disclose it. Does it still happen? Yes. But I think the odds of them judging your stutter are higher if you don’t disclos...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Access & RightsDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2025
3 points

30(M) Speech therapist and fellow stutterer here! I personally would be open about stuttering if you are comfortable sharing. I’ve found a lot of “looks” and reactions we get from people are because t...

Community & SupportSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Advice OfferedDisclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2025
1 points

be open about your stutter during your interview! I’m 16 and i just got a job at homegoods with a stutter. I flat out told the interviewer lady that i had one when i started to have blocks in my speec...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2025
1 points

wouldn't disclosing hurt me though? They write reports to adcoms who will be reading my evaluation reports and make decisions at a later date....

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2025
2 points

Nothing will get you rejected faster than hiding/lying. Don't email them ahead of time because that gives them time to formulate their own weird conceptions about what stuttering is or isn't. Be pre...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2025
5 points

This probably isn’t the quick fix you’re looking for but in my dental school interview I led with talking about my stutter, in the “tell me about yourself” part. Specifically how I don’t let it hold m...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
postr/StutterSep 21, 2025
0 points

Who else here stuttered right after Covid?

Who else here stuttered right after Covid? I feel like the 1 year lockdowns really damaged me. Before the lockdowns, I could talk normally fast without any sort of stutter and it sucks too, because I ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
2 points

If it's a job interview, I will usually tell them because I want to be open about it. In other situations I usually just let them figure it out as it happens. When I was still stuttering severely I w...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterSep 20, 2025
12 points

Ex-stutterers' club

Ex-stutterers' club I am a middle aged guy who had a stutter for most of their life.  I created this post because I am interested in others who had a stutter and overcame it.  I beat mine over a decad...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & CareerQuality of Life+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2025
1 points

Only if they ask about it. I'm happy if they don't ask, but if they ask, I'm not a very hard person and I answer their question. Most people are postive....

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterSep 17, 2025
28 points

My colleague said she wants to maintain distance from me. I just. Idk what to say

My colleague said she wants to maintain distance from me. I just. Idk what to say 21M interning at a firm. So we 6-7 people kinda got along well and we have our lunch together everyday. This girl i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2025
5 points

I just started doing it but telling as many people as you meet that you have a stutter let's a mountain off your chest. It's helped me so far and allows you to spread awareness of our silent disabilit...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAdvice OfferedStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2025
2 points

I’ve just started a degree apprenticeship and this whole week has been inductions and introducing yourself and saying my name is the most dreaded part. I speak well for the most part but I just can’t ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2025
2 points

Tbh no I don’t tell anyone, I stutter and idk what their reaction is because most people never really give me a “wtf look”, it’s always just a deadpan look or them leaning in to understand what i’m tr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2025
3 points

Yes, when I tell them or admit that I have a speech problem and try to educate them about it...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others