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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
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The issue is your perception of the situation and yourself. I am a covert stammerer but someone I know who had a severe one was really popular and had a lot of friends. Stop blaming it on your stammer...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
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My stutter used to be pretty severe. I have worked on fluency for a long time and improved a lot, however, the self confidence problems and not wanting to speak haven’t completely gone away. Addressin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
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I guess my problem is my 'uniqueness'. It is a well-known fact that there are not many stutterers in the world. But personally, I've dealt with only one stutterer, and that only in voice chat in one o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
1 points

I feel America is a good country. I'm from India and I have been doing my masters here and it has been amazing. Everyone is so kind and considerate. My stutter has been pointed out in many of my job i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
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No matter where you go there will be people who makes fun you and also some who gives you time to tell what you really wanted to tell. It's all about your circle, if you have a good friend circle you ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathyFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
1 points

But it's usually not possible in normal day to day conversations with random people. Usually my friends and family know that, and I don't have to explain it to them....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2023
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Antarctica or the North pole, like, are you serious? Going to where humans are is the issue, no matter what country. I can't relate to having a severe stutter. My stutter has gotten much better since ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentEnvironmental TriggersStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2023
1 points

Been there brotha. Still have the issue where it’s hard to add my 2 cents in a group conversation, especially a fast paced one. Cuz people would talk over me when I stutter. I either say it louder, ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2023
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I've been on a night out, not drunk enough to be drunk, we go to a chip shop (as we say in the uk) and the person refused to serve me because my stutter made him think I was drunk, wasn't till the per...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2023
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I've slowly been learning that nobody cares at 23. Have had horrible luck with people, and just recently at new job. Nobody really cares that I stutter...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Friendships & BelongingHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterSep 14, 2023
1 points

breaking moment

breaking moment man, 27 years old, I am from Colombia sorry for my English I feel that the speech block makes me look like a fake. It is something that I cannot control or I don't know when it will s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterSep 14, 2023
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Does anyone else feel like their losing their mind?

Does anyone else feel like their losing their mind? Ive developed so many weird fucking habits over the course of my stuttering getting worse, i barely recognize myself these days. Fuck. FUCK. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2023
1 points

No, I won't let people hear me stutter. I don't want people to see me as speech disabled....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2023
1 points

Sometimes we can't be effortless. You can't just eliminate all tension or struggle right away. So depending on what you mean by effortless, I'd say we want to start with getting rid of all the things ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterSep 14, 2023
1 points

What Should I do?

What Should I do? Hello everyone!!! I am reading everyday this subreddit and I am amazed how supportive people can be.. So basically I am stutter but I am only blocking on certain words(some I can ant...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2023
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i used to be afraid of phone calls. but these days, phone calls justfeel safer to me because my secondary behaviors and facial tics won't be seen on the other side. More people are aware of stutte...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
postr/StutterSep 14, 2023
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I had difficulties saying my name

I had difficulties saying my name (I don’t have a stutter, I have speech blocks, I won’t say a word until I can say it perfectly) I don’t know how someone like me has any future in a school, today the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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Maybe it's because I'm a female, and we're conditioned to let things go, but I've always laughed it off in these situations and acted like it wasn't a big deal. Then I go cry about it at home. However...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHumor & Community Tone+1 more
postr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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Stuttering limiting my voice

Stuttering limiting my voice I’ve been stuttering all my life, but I feel like these past couple of years have gotten a bit better. Something that always bothered me, is that I have to limit my gramma...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+1 more
postr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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I feel like I could stop stuttering but I'm too afraid to do it

I feel like I could stop stuttering but I'm too afraid to do it I think that if I wanted, I could stop stuttering from now, but my mind just blocks me. Basically sometimes, when the stuttering comes, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment