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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2021
1 points

I hope this helps someone. I also stutter on my name and was afraid of meeting coworkers for the first time and being asked my name. My remedy was to be the first to act and introduced myself first, s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling OthersHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2021
2 points

A really good way is to make up a name of a restaurant or bar that has your own name in it. So if your name is Michael, then we’ll say “Michael’s Bar and Grill.” Then go out into the streets in your c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2021
4 points

omg i thought i was the only who needs to say i stutter to be comfortable talking, it's like it gives me assurance that they understand why im being like this...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2021
3 points

I find I get that rush of words and stutter when I'm starting a presentation then I usually chuckle and say "sorry, I stutter sometimes so be patient" then I'm good the rest of the way. It's like subc...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2021
1 points

Same here, stuttering ver hard with v/w, and my name starts with a v. "Luckily", i have a very distinct 9-letter name, so when I know I am in stutter mood, I just skip the first letter, people will re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2021
5 points

You’re young. Running from it makes it worse. Just accept it. Talk about. Tell people you are working on it. Makes everyone including yourself at ease....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2021
6 points

Introduce as hi I stutter Then it’s out there no more running and words come easy...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 3, 2021
19 points

Do people think I forget my name?

Do people think I forget my name? So there’s some words I struggle with/letters. I realized I stutter with the words “this is” and anything with that starts with Z’s. It just so happens my name starts...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAnticipating StutteringDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2021
3 points

The other advice is really good. A practical bit of advice would be to check out the app Bumble, it's normally used for dating, but it has a friends option. International students will often use it, a...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & BelongingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2021
1 points

Same thing here, buddy. I only pass the technical interviews and fail most HR and behavioral ones. In one interview I messed everything up. I knew I would fail but then at the end, I told the intervi...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2021
9 points

First of all, congratulations on your interview. In my experience, I now disclose my stutter in job interviews because I cannot hide it. Once I disclose, I can NOW focus on the job interview and ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2021
8 points

Does your boss already know your stutter? I disclosed my stutter to my line manager so she wouldn't misinterpret this as me being nervous or scared all the time when it's just a thing about me. She di...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2021
3 points

If she’s been smiling at you she probably likes you. And that’s good that she doesn’t ignore your stutter, but rather she encourages you to speak more. This is good because she recognizes that you stu...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2021
5 points

There was a girl I was with you doesn't know I stutter and I just was not ready to make that known....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2021
5 points

I have a stutter and I’ve never disclosed it to anyone apart from my family. My friends at a new college which I recently joined don’t even think I have a stutter and it works in my favour as I don’t ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2021
2 points

Your situation feels very familiar to the one i was in when I started university. When i started studying journalism, i hadn’t actually taken therapy yet and I was still a stuttering mess. I recommend...

Therapy & ProfessionalSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Seeking TherapySchool & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2021
2 points

It really all depends on the person interviewing. I’ve gotten turned down before after interviews where I stuttered some, and hired after ones I stuttered a lot in. Aim for smaller local businesses, l...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2021
3 points

Have you ever disclosed to the interviewer you stutter? It works for me so you don’t need to force yourself to be a fluent speaker that you can be confident and a stutterer at the same time but the ri...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2021
9 points

First of all, you are not alone. I have bombed so many job interviews but I learned from every failure and applied it to the next one. Plus, I would ask my friends to help me practice, practice, ...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2021
0 points

I've got many jobs despite stuttering. Maybe it's not the stuttering? Does advertising you stutter help?...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others