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commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
1 points

I don't but I hope I do some time in the future and make her my best friend or girlfriend. or best friend if he's a man...

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commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
1 points

Hey man, dating can be super tough if you are ashamed of stuttering forsure. But as you know, it's not soley about the stutter. I know many people on their 20s that havent had any type relationship ...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
1 points

My gf has lots of ticks and I think it's cute cause I love her. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...

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Validation & EmpathyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
3 points

At some point I just stopped caring about what people might think of me if I stutter. If they think any less of me, the f*ck em. Move on to the next. I’d honestly love to date a woman who stutters. T...

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commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
3 points

Hi dude. I was terrified of talking to girls throughout all of middle school and the vast majority of highschool, I thought girls wouldn’t want to talk to me, and that I would just annoy them. All of ...

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commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
1 points

Similar boat for me. Girls have actually approached me, but I shut down out of fear of what they would think when I spoke. I probably just came off as a rude asshole because very few people realized t...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
3 points

Definitely man. I’m 22 and never been in a relationship before either. I wouldn’t say my stutter ruined my dating life, but rather my own insecurity of my stutter. I hope I can learn to get over this ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
1 points

Do you use dating apps? Give Tinder a shot. You clearly express yourself well through writing, as many PWS seem to. Hone that and work with it in text conversations. Let her know you stutter. This wil...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
5 points

Hi. So, you have many option how to increase your chances. Write as many girls as you can and just talk to them. Dont really mention your depressions and these negative things, just be a nice guy. A...

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commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
3 points

I’m trying dude, it’s just...I don’t think things are gonna get better. I keep getting told that I’ll find someone soon, but soon never comes. I feel better about my stutter now than I did in the past...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
10 points

I'm 32 and have still never been in a relationship. My stutter has taken away any desire to meet people and turned me into a husk. I basically just live day to day without any motivation or cause. I g...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
11 points

I'm going to tell you my experience. My stutter limited my potential romances, but not as the main reason, only as a single factor. I asked out thirty one people, men and women from 15-24...only thr...

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commentr/StutterMay 20, 2021
12 points

100%. I found it hard to talk to girls for obvious reasons. Similarly to you, I didn't get into a real relationship until I was in my early 20s. It's hard. I also missed out on a whole lot and regret ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2021
1 points

Some girls arw flatterded by that, cuz they guessing they arw making your more nervous. But in general, don't flirt, just talk. Take your stutter with a humor, maybe tell a funny story with about yout...

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Humor & Community ToneDating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2021
1 points

As a stutterer who is married my best advice is just be yourself. If the other person has issues with your stutter do you really think they’re long-term relationship/marriage material? The right pers...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2021
8 points

Don't try to flirt. Just talk to people. Trying to flirt often comes off as creepy. It's all just confidence. The stutter can actually work in your favour. I think it's actually very disarming especi...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2021
2 points

Just be yourself! Honestly stuttering doesn’t really get in the way of flirting. If the person you have the date with is understanding they won’t care if you are flirting while stuttering!...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2021
2 points

Dates can be tricky since we're nervous even without a stutter. Add in a stutter and we're bound to stutter to more cuz we're nervous. Best to just try not to focus on your stutter but the conversatio...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2021
17 points

This is a really tough thing. I struggled with this a lot in my teens and early 20's. That being said... It's not your stutter that will get in the way. I always thought the stutter was my problem. ...

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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2021
2 points

It depends on your personality. If you don’t have a flirtatious personality you shouldn’t force it otherwise you will not be comfortable during a conversation. Just be yourself and speak naturally eve...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance