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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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I wanted to highlight that having complications is extremely common - just because your colleague doesn't stutter, doesn't mean he is not suffering from something else. Therefore it's a norm. When e...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2023
1 points

It’s easy to say stop being a victim. But there’s one major thing you forgot to mention here — many of us have side effects of stuttering. The mental health aspect is multiplied for us; stuttering has...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2023
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*They hate you now!* Don't be shamed of your stutter, it means nothing....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2023
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I totally get that. I was just old enough to get it and honestly it made me uncomfortable to talk about at the time....

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Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2023
1 points

To me it is a monster, because the stuttering affliction destroyed much of my life. I would have loved to have become a music teacher/band director as that is my passion, but I couldn't. It affected...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2023
1 points

I was child when A Fish Called Wanda released, I loathe that movie. While the movie is great on it's own merits, I was too young to it or really understand it. But the comparisons to that character ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Roles & PerformanceShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2023
1 points

Sucks. It always sucks to see someone stutter on screen. It's an instant mirror for how I might be perceived as a stutterer. It's like listening to your voice on a recording....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2023
2 points

Never watch anything if someone stutters in it, it just reminds me how embarrassing it makes me feel about myself...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2023
1 points

Idk ..it just bugged me at first .. because I hate stuttering, nothing positive about it...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2023
1 points

This sounds great, and I think it will be a topic for conversation next time I see him! I’m afraid of making him feel like I’m comparing us two, because his is a lot more prominent and he was bullied ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 11, 2023
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I cant live like this

I cant live like this Im 16, sophomore in high school. I have a pretty severe stutter, except, its not like the typical "s-s-stutter", I literally cant say any words at all when it happens. Im saying ...

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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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No-one has ever said that to me but I would absolutely hate it. Not being able to get words out, not being able to make a comment in a timely fashion, or being physically exhausted from a bad day stru...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
1 points

I guess it depends on the person and the context but generally I don’t like it. If it’s cute then why do I receive way more criticisms about it than compliments? I do know that it comes from a place o...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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It sucks when anyone trivialises something that's been a massive problem for me. But I always try to judge situations by the intentions....

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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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Then you'll slowly peak your way into insanity, reality is going to hit you like a truck when the ostracization becomes more apparent. I'm praying for you....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
1 points

cut off 99.9% of the human population then, it's a natural response of a human to judge someone by an odd characteristic. Stuttering will always be hell....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
1 points

Why are you saying "Oh but it was hilarious", people looking at you weird for struggling to speak isn't **hilarious**. People like you are the reason why others think stuttering isn't as bad as it is....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
1 points

I don't like it at all. I don't remember anyone telling me my stutter is cute but whenever I see someone online comment that stutter is cute, it gets me in the wrong way. I see at like it is. Someon...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterSep 9, 2023
1 points

How do you feel when people say "your stutter is cute"

How do you feel when people say "your stutter is cute" I began to stutter when I was 5 and managed to control my stutter when I was 17ish - thanks to years of speech therapy and also having a parent w...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterSep 9, 2023
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not a single day without embarassment and cringe!

not a single day without embarassment and cringe! damn guys I'm so tired of this! Do you have such embarassing situation with stuttering daily? Like when people don't understand what is happening to y...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment