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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2018
1 points

I also stutter much more on the phone. For me the hardest & most stressful part is thinking about the transition between waiting and talking. So what I do to combat this is to wear earphones and w...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2018
3 points

Feeling helpless and frustrated and tired

Feeling helpless and frustrated and tired I’ve had a stutter since I was a child and I gradually got over it until about 8 months ago. It’s come back into my life with a vengeance. It’s been so bad th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 4, 2018
5 points

Any one in Dublin Ireland?

Any one in Dublin Ireland? My stammer has gotten a lot worse in the past few months it’s destroyed my confidence,I hate going out,I hate talking to people At this point,I need to tackle this before it...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
7 points

When you're talking to others, you're *communicating*, in addition to just speaking.   When you talk to yourself, you already know your message well in advance - it was already in your hea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
1 points

Yes that's an option, and I already appreciate this. Although it's not really about the time I guess.. I like to compare it to my girlfriend who has a deep fear of spiders (I don't want to call it Ara...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2018
2 points

I feel your pain. I like to let out a deep sigh when something like that happens and I just try to forget about it. Think about it. How many memories of stuttering can you think of in the past couple ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2018
6 points

I don't stutter. A friend who does once set me this challenge. It's the first and only moment I've been really able to imagine how it feels, even for an instant. Because, like your wife, the challenge...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterJan 23, 2018
12 points

My difficulty ordering food made me complain to my school's Accessibility Website

My difficulty ordering food made me complain to my school's Accessibility Website I know some people may not agree with what I did, but here it goes. I go to a University and I often have trouble orde...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentFrustration & AngerQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2018
2 points

I wanna be able to order food without getting rushed or have rude workers repeat the question and like "helloo?!"...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2018
5 points

I do consider it as a disability and I'm sure we'd all be much better off without it. Having said that, a lot of people come to terms with their stuttering and live their lives fully inspite of it. Wo...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2018
3 points

I do consider it a disability; however it is very circumstantial. All stutterers are different. ...

Social & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Quality of LifeSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2018
3 points

IANAL, but have had fairly extensive HR training, and the ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act) does recognize speech impediments as a disability. I don't think it has the severity of some disabilitie...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Access & RightsQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2018
8 points

It's defined as a disability in many countries, yes. It'll of course vary in severity, but the precedence is there....

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Access & RightsQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2018
7 points

It's kind of a disability but the problem is that every stammerer is different to some extent. Some are less stammer and some are not. Unlike other disability e.g, blind. You can say he/she a disable ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Medicalization / NeurodiversityQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2018
1 points

For me, if I'm blocking on a word, I'm not going to get it. I restart my sentence (or part of my sentence) and try to push through it. The issue is that this is a coping mechanism as they say in SLP (...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2018
3 points

I can carry on conversations with some people with minimal issues. I do stutter at home but it is certainly not nearly as frequent or severe. The social anxiety side of things makes it worse so I nor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2018
3 points

Awesome! I also joined a debating club, in University. Just read your post (yes, I read very quickly, my speaking's a different story), couldn't agree more man. I'd go a step forward and say 'curing' ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationHumor & Community Tone+1 more
postr/StutterJan 9, 2018
2 points

Thinking about getting a cleaning job

Thinking about getting a cleaning job I block, a lot. It makes my current job challenging and anxiety-producing. I'm worried about my mental health. I have been considering becoming a janitor or work ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2018
1 points

You have a disability. You need to accept it. I know acceptance is hard, but it doesn't mean it's permanent or that it can't be managed, but for now you have a serious health issue which significantly...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2018
1 points

What happens after your block? Are you fluent? I think self disclosure is important, even if it’s via the Stuttering Foundation’s “I stutter” card. If you can’t change it or cure it, you have to f...

Speech & StutteringSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Blocks & StoppagesDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride+1 more