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commentr/StutterApr 6, 2021
6 points

In my opinion, telling him to stop and relax could make it worse. I personally don't like it when people tell me that because if it was really that simple, I obviously wouldn't be stuttering. It's lik...

Emotional ExperienceParent & CaregiverCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerEarly Concern & OnsetValidation & Empathy+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2021
2 points

It's ok to get mad. You should be mad. I'm mad and I don't even know these people. Fact - Stuttering is not wrong. It's not something you should be scolded for. Your mother should be ashamed of hersel...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2021
8 points

I hate when they don't answer personally, just because i know I will have to force myself to try again....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2021
6 points

English is not my native language There is no mistake when you stutter Speak slowly and take a breath Accept that you stutter and live with it I get bullied by strangers when I talk, but I don't c...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2021
2 points

Yes, can relate. Just let them argue and once they are done get up and walk out. If you listen to them long enough you will realize you don’t need to be around that negative energy so there isn’t any...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
postr/StutterApr 4, 2021
65 points

when your stutter ruins an argument

when your stutter ruins an argument this is probably the biggest thing i hate about having a stutter. i'm generally a very kind and patient person and i'm definitely not the type to get into arguments...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2021
2 points

I agree with you, some people in my family think so, just because I find it hard to get the word out, nor offensive words are ever lacking, I'm tired of it man...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2021
1 points

telling me that I can do nothing in the future that I am useless and many other things, It's so harder man...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2021
2 points

I used to go for tuition classes (none of us went there for learning anything, all we did was play) where the teacher asked me to write answers of a few questions of the book which I did. He couldn't...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
3 points

I think I would explode if I was told that directly. I almost wish someone would tell me it to my face so I could stammer out “do you know what a speech impediment is?”...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
9 points

I understand how you feel. I have been in your shoes several times in my place of work. Every time I have a one-on-one with my team lead, there’s some version of “you need to work on your communicatio...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerEmployment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
1 points

I work in a place that if you are not part of the ‘click’ you have no chance. I don’t mind being a quiet guy I speak when I need to speak. I’m not one for telling jokes or making a lot of banter and I...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
12 points

When you're smarter than most in your department but the dumb ones that know how to speak get promotions. It's so frustrating...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
2 points

Vent away! I don't think we have enough outlets to get our frustrations about our stutters out. I will say though, as a socially anxious person who just happens to have a stutter (they're not related)...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
4 points

I fucking know right, most of these motherfuckers who keep saying "oh i have social anxiety no one likes me let me take a quick selfie so i can let every single person know about it" are just pretendi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
14 points

I have a block too. It pisses me off when people say "It's okay I stutter too." Fuck you...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
postr/StutterMar 30, 2021
76 points

Beginning to hate “socially anxious” people...

Beginning to hate “socially anxious” people... I know this isn’t right or fair- it’s a vent if anything. I just need to get this out. So I see all of these social anxiety memes, i relate 100% (after...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
9 points

It's so frustrating! Like, why can't we just speak to others like we speak when there's no one around, it's not like there's something inherently wrong with our ability to produce sounds :/...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Frustration & AngerBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2021
1 points

Haha, same!! If I'm angry, I don't usually stutter. I remember reading a story on here from someone who overheard a customer service rep making fun of him and I even think they called him retarded. He...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterMar 22, 2021
9 points

I think I should quit this

I think I should quit this Hi, I'm Fran and I'm technically in my third year of law school. I stutter since I was 12 years old if I'm not mistaken. I am the kind of stutterer who really doesn't want t...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger