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commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
2 points

Comment #3: >*"Sometimes I stutter more when alone.***"** You mentioned stuttering more when you're alone—I can totally relate. As a child, I did too. But over time, I practiced fluency while alone ...

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commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
1 points

Comment #2: Even “acceptance” is a stimulus. For example, here is my personal experience with "acceptance": When I fully identify with being a stutterer and "accept" it, I start stuttering more. But...

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commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
2 points

Comment #1: >*"I think this phenomenon isn’t totally consistent with my experience."* Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply! 🙏 You're right—this phenomenon definitely isn't consistent acr...

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postr/StutterApr 14, 2025
11 points

How to feel confident when stuttering

How to feel confident when stuttering I'm about to go on a date and I keep thinking the date will be more difficult because of the stutter. I say ahh and umm a lot, repeat certain words, take long pau...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2025
2 points

>*"I think there is a quick final fear/doubt aspect."* Yes I think so too. Ultimately, I think that stuttering is the manifestation (say: outcome) of a triggered mechanism before the stutter occurs. ...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2025
2 points

Yes, very interesting. When I get excited, like after they say yes to a sale, I begin stuttering on my way out, lol. I do wonder if it's a final fear that kicks in to finish it off right and that se...

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postr/StutterApr 13, 2025
12 points

I hate talking so much bc I stutter when im nervous and im always nervous..

I hate talking so much bc I stutter when im nervous and im always nervous.. And I feel like people dont want to just sit there and stare at me while I try to say something, id get annoyed if I were th...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2025
2 points

Yeah…no. A chat bot is not a source of accurate information. All professionals with advanced training in dysfluency agree that *blocking and avoidances are rooted in anxiety*. You can disagree, but...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2025
2 points

>*"Because the evaluation still happens and it knows nothing will impede me in the following moments."* Comment #3: **Imagined concepts:** One way to look at this. is to think of “feared words” (su...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2025
1 points

Comment #2: >*"The mind knows when we will stutter because it evaluates what's coming next, what will hinder it, and if and by how much it's enough to stop us.  So that is why I can also feel when I ...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2025
2 points

Comment #2: > >*"The mind knows when we will stutter because it evaluates what's coming next, what will hinder it, and if and by how much it's enough to stop us.  So that is why I can also feel when...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2025
2 points

Comment #1: >*"One thing that stunned me while I was being told to change how I say something was when I knew i was blocking before saying a thing!  And when I felt it let go before saying a thing!  ...

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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2025
5 points

Huh? Do you think your freedom of speech is being restricted? Please look up what FOS *actually* is. RFK/autism has nothing to do with a “lack of stutter research”, in part because there’s actual...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2025
1 points

You are misunderstanding me. A lot. 1. Wanting something to be a certain way does not make it that way. 2. How did you determine I was mad? Was it *my tone*? (Which I used only to illustrate a ...

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Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2025
1 points

1.What helps me most is that I started a job a couple months ago that requires me to speak to clients(strangers) which was completely terrifying to me at the beginning because I over the years I tried...

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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2025
3 points

As long as you’re saying every word you want to say, it shouldn’t matter how it’s said. If someone is being impatient with you, disclose your stutter and quickly explain what stuttering is so they und...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2025
1 points

When working in a new environment or with new colleagues, do you openly disclose your stutter, or do you just talk and people figure it out? I struggle with speech blocking, ESPECIALLY around people I...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2025
2 points

It’s the worst part for me. I wish I could be the guy who makes people’s days and chats them up in public. I also feel bad for others if they have to hear me struggle. It’s embarrassment/shame more ...

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postr/StutterApr 11, 2025
4 points

Any advice?

Any advice? So i have been stuttering since my childhood. The weird thing about me is the following: I never ever stutter alone, i could speak for hours and be as fluent as Jordan Peterson. Also, mos...

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postr/StutterApr 11, 2025
10 points

Any advice for a teenager with a stutter?

Any advice for a teenager with a stutter? I'm currently in highschool and have been stuttering since i was 8/9 years old. It's both hereditary but also worsens during stressful situations. How do I de...

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