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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
3 points

I have grown to accept that others will not understand so i don't care anymore. I will explain in depth to those close to me and employers though....

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
2 points

I agree, i think once we start putting the time into the things that will actually make us more Confident (Better Clothes, SkinCare Routine, maybe a spa Day Etc.) the stutter will become more of a Aft...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
1 points

>Entertaining thoughts is like starring at a beautiful sunset with rainbow, but when a tiny cloud passes by, your eyes follow it and before you know it, the rainbow is gone and that beautiful sunset i...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
2 points

So, regarding overcoming fears and needs that drag us down, make it a strength. I struggled with this all my life, but after going through HELL, I just got tired of it and I’m like “what’s the point o...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
2 points

Thank you so much! Acceptance has probably been the hardest part for me, I feel like I managed to get it under control for some time, but lately i feel like I’m back where I started, also I don’t work...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
2 points

I know saying hang in there is not going to help. But , please do however stick with it. You are only a few days in. In all honesty, it reads like you have a good case of the jitters. Everyone gets th...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
1 points

37, partner and 4 kids, job, house, and I still stutter. Try not to let it hold you back, it's just one part of you, it shouldn't define who you are....

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
2 points

I've used apps to some success. Activities are usually a better method tho (sports league, board game nights, rock climbing etc). I do agree that flirting can very hard. One thing I learned though is ...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
10 points

I have stutter like you (F24). This is the hard truth, you will face all kinds of people when dating. It’s not as bad as we think(the ones who stutter). I had a boyfriend who was not as supportive as ...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
3 points

I don’t have the best advice because I don’t have much experience dating after 18 because I was with my ex for 16 years, but I can share my experience. And I am also struggling now at 34. Dating apps ...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2025
1 points

Wow. This hit me hard. "When I stutter, I speak my own language fluently" amazing words truly. Thank you so much for sharing this video 🙏🏼...

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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
1 points

Don’t listen to this guy don’t ever stutter on purpose. Thanks for your input that no one asked you for. I am CURED if I say so myself I can talk with anyone anywhere anytime. Don’t ever speak for me ...

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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
3 points

Frankly, if my stutter is an issue for her, she can just go fuck herself. Seriously, I’m not giving anyone the time of day if it’s that much of an annoyance for them. I never preface interactions, or ...

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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
1 points

Depends on how you define stuttering. I know someone who used to stutter and struggled a lot with it, and now he speaks 99% fluent and occasionally has some disfluencies. More importantly, he never th...

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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
2 points

Not confidence in the way you speak, just confidence in yourself. Let yourself speak like you do, whenever you want to. I know first hand it’s not that easy, it’s tiring and scary to open your mouth s...

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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
1 points

Literally not being able to say the words that I need to say is not an "accent" nor the way I talk. Such a stupid comment....

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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
13 points

My friend, you are not broken. Stuttering is your accent; it’s how you talk. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of… YOU GOT THIS...

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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
2 points

Well said and I 100% agree. I think I’m going to have a mug custom made that says “fluency is a spectrum.”...

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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2025
3 points

We are all in this together, thinking you’re a freak over this does nothing but hurt yourself and others with speech impediments. People are gonna respond weirdly or rudely. Sometimes it’s just confus...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
4 points

I've been in your situation. I have a few things to say. Firstly, you personally, are not a freak, stuttering involves things that are going on in the brain. But you personally, whoever you are, there...

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