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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2018
2 points

I'm guilty of just avoiding the phone as much as humanly possible. My motto is that if it can't be ordered online, I don't want it....

Social & Relationships
Quality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2018
2 points

I can totally relate with the same story – moderate/severe stutter when younger that got better through therapy in late teens so that by my early 20s, it was still somewhat noticeable, but not terribl...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Quality of LifeFluency TechniquesTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2018
5 points

I never been so depressed but when i entered the adulthood every thing changed and just I gave up for trying to socialize because i feel so ashamed of myself like i can't talk to another human bean, h...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
1 points

>Fuck sake I just wanna earn a living where I'm not required to speak to people and fucking humiliate myself and destroy my already small ego Without communicating you're just never going to date ...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
2 points

I understand. Can't help you not stutter. I hope you can find a way to achieve the communication you desire despite it. I think it is possible. I wish you the best!...

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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
3 points

I know. Most people don't see stuttering in a bad light. It's just a quirk. I'm ok with that, I've severely stuttered with a lot of people and they've been understanding. It only bothers me when peopl...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
1 points

I've explained to him how stressful it is to have a stutter, and that him stuttering only makes it worse. He listens, but his actions don't change. I know outside of that he's a fairly nice guy, so I ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2018
2 points

I worked on a Helpdesk answering calls for a couple of years. After you get over fear and get into a routine you will be fine. You will have bad days but you will have 10 times more good days. ...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2018
1 points

I have the same problem when talking on the phone. I sometimes prefer talking to people in real life because they can see me stutter, and so they understand :P...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2018
2 points

Hey, I'm a coward about that kind of stuff so don't think you're alone. I think some of us are just wired differently when it comes to anxiety and how conscious we are. Believe it or not, a lot of peo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2018
2 points

I answer phone calls all day and talk to people regularly. Honestly, the phones terrified me at first. Like it would ring, I would freeze solid, and forget what to do it. I fought it though. Now I fe...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsMeds & Substances
Employment & CareerQuality of LifeHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2018
7 points

I was a receptionist for 2 years in a hospital. On voluntary basis but still. The thought of answering the phone or having a line of people there waiting for me was absolutely terrifying. The first ...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2018
1 points

Yup, I imagine if I could speak fluently all the great things I can do, I'd probably have a better job, social life, relationships, friendships. People who can speak fluently have no idea how great th...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of LifeDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2018
1 points

You might have to tell the customer to hold on a minute. And tune her out. Say mam a few times to her, so that it doesn't sound rude. But don't let people get to you. They are just stupid sometimes. T...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterAug 17, 2018
15 points

I start college in two days

I start college in two days I am nervous that on the first day of class there is going to be an icebreaker where they make us go around the room and introduce ourselves. That happened a lot in school....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterAug 14, 2018
24 points

Exhausted by Stuttering!

Exhausted by Stuttering! I'm a 21 year old university student with a stammer since age 6 and I am absolutely tired of it. How do you go through life when you can't even communicate? Naturally I am fun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2018
1 points

Look at it like this: you encountered one of the worst-case phone call scenarios for stutterers. It sucked, sure. But the world didn't end. You've had the bad experience. You can live through another ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2018
0 points

Focus on the positives, not the negatives. You have friends and a good job. Many people who stutter don't even have that. The overwhelming majority of adults who stutter that I've met have a signific...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life
postr/StutterJun 22, 2018
2 points

Recently developed a stutter

Recently developed a stutter Hi all! So I'm sure these posts are pretty common, but I've recently developed a stutter I'm currently 23, and I just graduated and moved across the country (I live in t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Trauma & PsychologicalSadness & HopelessnessQuality of Life
postr/StutterJun 17, 2018
10 points

I feel like I've lost all motivation to communicate anymore

I feel like I've lost all motivation to communicate anymore The past few months have been really tough and I can see myself isolating myself from others. I just feel like I'm unable to put in the effo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life