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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2022
1 points

Yeah! I stutter more with some people and less with others and I have no control over it. Normally I hardly ever stutter around girls I like. Or if I do it’s more of a hyper “cute” stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2022
2 points

Same. I had a girl that I started to like just because I could talk to her so easily, and barely stuttered. Also, she laughed at my jokes too which encouraged me even more. Unfortunately, she moved ac...

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Dating & Romance
postr/StutterMar 7, 2022
15 points

I think my stutter gets faster and easier to get through when I’m in a more hyper fun mood

I think my stutter gets faster and easier to get through when I’m in a more hyper fun mood I was talking with my crush the other day at my work and she came up and started talking to me and we were ch...

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Situational VariabilityPropositionality & WeightDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2022
4 points

Mishima compared stuttering to being a bird stuck in the mud. Your thoughts are capable of soaring to great heights, but you're stuck in the mud, unable to express your full potential. It's a descript...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2022
1 points

Once again, I don't get where you are coming from. I was simply asking for clarification. Besides there is nothing wrong with going for who you are attracted to, and going for who you are most attract...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2022
1 points

Don’t focus so much on trying to be with women who *other people* will find sexy. That’s what the whole 1-10 thing is really about....

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2022
1 points

Interesting you say that as until recently, I had always based my self-esteem on my success in academic endeavours, and have done quite well in that regard, and yet it hasn't helped me with too much w...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2022
1 points

If one of your main goals in dating is to stand next to a women other people will find attractive at first glance, please please get another goal....

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2022
1 points

Very interesting. I have had one experience that I can recall that validates this, where a VERY attractive girl pursued me despite me being worse looking than her and having a stutter, whereas average...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2022
2 points

I kind of just meant the attractiveness of women you date. Most of the time, men tend to be able to partner with women of a certain aesthetic standard but not above that standard. The implication is i...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2022
1 points

Great post. Appreciated reading it. Could you elaborate on the kind of discrimination you are referring to when it comes to social and romantic interactions, especially the part where you said "Not t...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2022
3 points

I am the exact same way! I avoid meeting new people like crazy. It’s really sad because my social life has suffered and same for my children. They want to have sleepovers, which requires meeting the p...

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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2022
2 points

I struggle with my name, my husbands name, and our last name. It's definitely a real struggle. I hate chit chat, and I hate meeting new people all because of this. My hubby is a sweetheart and usually...

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postr/StutterFeb 10, 2022
1 points

Valentines Day/Dating Themed Stuttering Podcast Episode

Valentines Day/Dating Themed Stuttering Podcast Episode I thought it would be timely to share [Proud Stutter](https://www.proudstutter.com)'s "Dating with a Stutter" episode. You can listen on your fa...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2022
1 points

1. ~9 or 10 which is somewhat unusual :/ 2. Yep :) 3. Some people would disagree, but I find it so amazing when you’re partner (at least tries to) understand and empathise with you. Finding a partne...

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commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2022
1 points

I’ve seen a lot of folks get flat out rejected due to their stutter. It’s sad. Luckily we all found great women!...

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postr/StutterFeb 5, 2022
8 points

How did your significant other react the first time you stuttered in front of them?

How did your significant other react the first time you stuttered in front of them? ...

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Dating & Romance
postr/StutterFeb 3, 2022
12 points

Stuttering has made me avoid all human interaction that doesn’t include my family. The only time i’m able to properly interact and converse with others is when i’m drunk

Stuttering has made me avoid all human interaction that doesn’t include my family. The only time i’m able to properly interact and converse with others is when i’m drunk And i’m not even exaggarating....

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2022
1 points

Bro I have a stutter and buetiful girlfriend nice job everything...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2022
1 points

Yup, married, kid, good job, house, dog. Moderate to severe overt stutter. Confidence is key. Find out who you are, stuttering is only one part. It definitely makes everything harder though. I had to ...

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