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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2021
3 points

If this is a repeat situation, scorning you for being inadequate and “dumb”, it’s abusive and will not change. You’re right - an apology after abuse does not make up for abuse. If it’s truly that wa...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterSep 12, 2021
11 points

why do they work so weird

why do they work so weird i can talk to myself even friends close to fine, a teacher i stutter worse in front of the clas even worse. my mom says i don’t when i curse some one out which i do sometimes...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Strategic Swearing/CursingFrustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterSep 12, 2021
25 points

Has anyone else stuttered in front of the entire class, or had a similar experience?

Has anyone else stuttered in front of the entire class, or had a similar experience? When I was 17 in theater class, I was giving a 1 minute monologue for a speech in front of the class. I thought I d...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerExperiential Association
postr/StutterSep 8, 2021
35 points

It sucks when you have to write so people with understand you.

It sucks when you have to write so people with understand you. I’ve stuttered all my life but recently it’s gotten to the point where I try to form a sentence and all that comes out is bits and pieces...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2021
2 points

Thank you! It doesn’t feel like value when I can’t even say it without almost passing out, sweating, and getting angry. It sucks...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterSep 7, 2021
14 points

Why does this happen?

Why does this happen? My stutter by itself is pretty mild. It isn’t that bad and I’m fine with it. But when I try to tell a story or something like that it always is so bad to the point I can barely e...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Propositionality & WeightFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2021
2 points

I feel like it’s less of having empathy for the other person and it’s more of understanding that the other person does not have the knowledge of the situation. Or does that have empathy for you. When ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesListener ReactionsFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2021
3 points

I do the same. My father also came with his share of trauma. I don't think I stutter because of the trauma he caused me. I can see how he was also traumatized in his life, and unconsciously passes his...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2021
4 points

Not just stuttering, but one of life greatest challenges, how do we make sure other people's cruelty, rudeness or bitterness towards us, has no impact, and just falls at your feet...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2021
-4 points

u r the real one who keeps shitting on this sub since I've witness how severely bad mental conditions u r in in my last post LOL. Can idiots here level up reading comprehensions and reading patiences...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsFrustration & AngerMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2021
1 points

Yeah, perhaps I'm being too doting to my future children. Cuz I don't to gift them with bad stuff which I possessed already and . But as you said, stuttering isn't as important as all these big things...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2021
1 points

Happened to me a lot at school, only once since I left and that was from a customer I served during retail. I got annoyed and told him it wasnt cool and he actually apologised. He didn't realise I had...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2021
31 points

Not the same thing, but every time I hear someone say "Did I stutter?" I want to go for their throat....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2021
2 points

My stutter is worst in these situations, and it isn’t *mild*. Congrats on living the Dream....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2021
2 points

It’s not the best day, but don’t let it derail you from the path you’re on. I guarantee these same callers would mock whomever didn’t sound like them. It could be an accent, talking too fast, too fr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2021
2 points

My advice... ​ Look that AH in the eye and ask "What is it about me that makes you feel so insecure about yourself, that you have to try and intimidate me...Would you say or act like this...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2021
16 points

Hey man, I know how you feel. I work in customer service myself, so a big part of my job is talking on the phone. It is hard. Most of the customers I talk to are polite, but there are a few really shi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career
postr/StutterAug 26, 2021
19 points

Clients mock me the way I speak

Clients mock me the way I speak I have anxiety, depression, all that good stuff. I work as an IT engineer. I've stuttered my whole life. I can go months without stuttering, then stutter badly for week...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2021
2 points

Maybe not being able to say their name?? NOPE. Not being able to say where they work??. NOPE. Having a voice is a gift and if you can use it perfectly and you’re are AFRAID?! to use it, you suck lol...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2021
6 points

I am 19 years old , going to second semester in university seeing everyone living their university life crushes me , whether we like it or not speech is so important in your personality , i feel lik...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+1 more