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postr/StutterNov 22, 2019
48 points

I asked to write my name down instead of saying it

I asked to write my name down instead of saying it I was at Best Buy few minutes back to exchange something I bought (versa 2 fit bit is on sale for anybody that's interested). The person at the count...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterNov 19, 2019
23 points

'Fitbit' for Speech: The First Wearable Speech Tracker for People Who Stutter

'Fitbit' for Speech: The First Wearable Speech Tracker for People Who Stutter As a person who stutters (or stammer), I felt all my life as if I was living in a minefield, since I never knew when a wor...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalSocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesAssistive DevicesQuality of Life
postr/StutterNov 16, 2019
8 points

Do you consider your stutter a 'disability'?

Do you consider your stutter a 'disability'? I often refer to my stutter as a disability, but I've had people (who don't stutter) claim I was exaggerating. My stutter is debilitating and has ruined ab...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Medicalization / NeurodiversityQuality of LifeSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
5 points

Some jobs just aren't a good fit, whether it's because a specific aspect of the job itself (phones!) or just the general anxiety inducing environment. Everyone who stutters has shared in your frustrat...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of Life
postr/StutterNov 12, 2019
7 points

Is it just me?

Is it just me? No offense to anyone, but I absolutely hate it when people who don't stutter say that they know what you're going through, or that they're afraid to speak in front of people. Honestly,...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
-2 points

Even with the fancy "I dont want to talk to anybody" ordering devices, they still messed up my order. Guess who had cheeseless McChickens for lunch and so wanted to complain about it?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2019
6 points

my friend literally had me order for her because she was nervous... and im the one with the stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2019
2 points

Ikr. I cant eat in uni unless i have a friend around. They recently shifted the cafe to the new building. Much fancier. But here u gotta order at one place, take a slip and then go to the other counte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
1 points

This is good advice. I too have a debilitating block that only came up recently (last 1-2 years). Otherwise I used to be perfectly fluent. I’m coming to terms with it and am trying to view it as only ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
1 points

I agree that I feel cheated, but as I learned from my therapist, the stutter is really only a small part of our lives. There are many other areas that can and should bring us joy and to which we may s...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
3 points

You have to tell the clerk your name or you'll be arrested by the Starbucks police. But really, just give them a name you can say. Don't overthink basic things. Now giving your name in a court of law ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterNov 5, 2019
41 points

I Feel Like A Big Ass Baby

I Feel Like A Big Ass Baby Hello, longtime lurker and lifelong stutterer. I tend to be pretty confident about my stutter and I've overcome a lot of fears with practice talking in front of people. For ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentQuality of LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2019
1 points

Me too man. I always feel like that they should apriciate their ability to speak normally more. I'm younger so I've started using my parents as a helping tool to order food because I can't stand the e...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterNov 3, 2019
11 points

What useful metrics a ‘Fitbit for Speech’ would have for people who stutter?

What useful metrics a ‘Fitbit for Speech’ would have for people who stutter? A fitness tracker (such as Fitbit) measures the distance you walk, run, swim or cycle, as well as the number of calories yo...

Therapy & ProfessionalSocial & Relationships
Assistive DevicesQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2019
11 points

You did nothing wrong! You have every right to enjoy life to the same extent as someone who doesn't stutter. Honestly you should complain about the security guard....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2019
3 points

I really sympathise with the notion that life would be easier if I were mute. So much of friendly relationships (particularly less in-depth ones that you might form with work colleagues) is based on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2019
3 points

Happy birthday for tomorrow. Hope you have a good one. If you want someone to chat to feel free to drop me a PM. I dropped out of school, didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life, was struggling...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAdvice RequestsQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2019
2 points

Interestingly enough i went to a speech therapist for 12 years, never realized he was a stutterer until one day he called me to see how i was doing and he had a subtle block on a word. Ps: just goes...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2019
7 points

I particularly enjoy this on the phone with no visual cues so I have to keep filling the dead air with ums so I don't get disconnected....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2019
4 points

It takes time turn your attitude around, it won't be an overnight change. I took me until my mid 20s to finally have a more positive outlook. Yes I still dislike my stutter, but I don't let it hold me...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideQuality of Life