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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
3 points

I think the best way to look at it is to develop a better understanding/relationship with yourself. I like to look at it how you belong to yourself before anyone else, and you are your own best friend...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
10 points

Learn to love yourself. Be that torch in the windstorm, never give in. Find your copes, your cheats, take a breath, gather your synonyms and thoughts, move forward and enjoy it. I went from fear o...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Hope & MotivationMindset shiftEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
19 points

Ive met other stutterers before, of varying degrees of stuttering and they were all pretty cool people. They actually had hobbies and interests, I can't keep track of how many boring non stutterers I ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
2 points

There are many self help books which discuss how to be aware of, and learn to change one’s thoughts. One of my personal fav’s is “The Magic of Believing”, written decades ago by Claude Bristol....

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
1 points

I see your post ad 2 ways: First, congrats for standing up for yourself and drawing a line in the sand about what you are not willing to do. Second, it’s important to understand that you can always c...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
1 points

Yes! Attach yourself to the process, not the results! Fear of speaking is AS BIG of a problem as is stuttering! Practicing the art of conversation is super important in overcoming what I call approach...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2023
3 points

"perfection is the enemy of progress" - Einstein, probably But for real, this is good advice in all areas of life. Trying to have the mindset of "I'm gonna stutter and this person will just have to d...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2023
2 points

I'll keep practicing, though I do not like his crutches. I actually have my own crutches that help me, and I'll stick to them. I'll add costal breathing and pausing as crucial tools as well. Also, not...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
2 points

It probably doesn’t feel like it, but this is a massive opportunity for you. Disclose your stuttering at the beginning of your first presentation, and then remind them at the beginning of every subseq...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
1 points

Ryan Holiday is the man!!! His book The Daily Stoic and Courage is calling has helped me in immense ways than I can remember...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
1 points

I’m not really focusing on applying this to speech but more trying to shift my mindset to be more positive and optimistic about my speech which I think will in turn help me speak more fluent. But, I f...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJan 21, 2023
5 points

Tips to improve stuttering according to a very interesting article about a 16-year old homeschooler who Breaks the Cycle of Stuttering

Tips to improve stuttering according to a very interesting article about a 16-year old homeschooler who Breaks the Cycle of Stuttering After reading this [article](https://ahn.mnsu.edu/services-and-ce...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Mindset shiftFriendships & BelongingSeeking Therapy+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2023
2 points

Well said! The more I thought I stuttered around someone, the more I did. The more I thought I'd stutter on certain words the more I did. All bs that I needed to wash out of my head. That's where ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2023
2 points

Yes, I always love your videos! >A lot of these so called techniques I feel are more...awareness I agree, in my opinion I believe that awareness techniques are more effective than non-awareness t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftMindfulness & BreathingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2023
2 points

Hey are you the one writing bullet points on my video's because those are great! Some of the words you used I love and wish I mentioned too :D It looks like you are making a lot of it your own whic...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2023
2 points

Great post! I'm certain the stutter community can learn from how you outgrew stuttering. Would you like to create another post with a short and clear strategy? This is my attempt to write the first co...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJan 18, 2023
17 points

Someone asked me: How do you enter a fluency mental state? and how do you notice that you are in a fluency mental state?

Someone asked me: How do you enter a fluency mental state? and how do you notice that you are in a fluency mental state? In one of my youtube video's someone asked me this and I want to copy and paste...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Roles & PerformanceAvoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2023
2 points

Thanks! So today (the next day from this video), I have this belief system now that I can instantly go fluent like a non-stutterer (edit: I think we know that we can say any word but there is a diffe...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2023
2 points

Take up meditation! This is the single best tip I can offer you. Meditation is the gateway into you learning how to begin controlling (aka working out) your mind. Start it, it’s like doing mental push...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 17, 2023
17 points

Tips to improve stuttering according to the book Untethered soul (Journey Beyond Yourself - a mindfulness approach) by Singer

Tips to improve stuttering according to the book Untethered soul (Journey Beyond Yourself - a mindfulness approach) by Singer This book is about mindfulness, but doesn't discuss stuttering. Nonetheles...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift