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postr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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What should I do? (Advice request)

What should I do? (Advice request) I (male, 18yo) have a severe stutter since I started to talk, I have been to a speech therapist and taking pills to depresion and anxiety for 5 mouths, all my life m...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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You and I are quite similar. I too stutter and have an older brother who can be insensitive about my speech sometimes. It was worse when we were younger (kids and siblings tease each other), but as we...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyHelplessness & AgencyFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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There is the me that could have been but I'm not that person. I could never have been. This is my life. I'm the person I have had to be. Most of the things that put people off about me aren't my stut...

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postr/StutterNov 18, 2023
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Does anyone feel like they're unable to be their trueselves with a stutter?

Does anyone feel like they're unable to be their trueselves with a stutter? Hey all, Bit of a background before I get into the main topic, but I'm in my late 20s and have had a stutter since I was ar...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2023
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I can resonate. Some days are like that. Some days when I have a big block on the morning, I know I am conditioned for the whole day. When I have a day like that I try to be honest with my past expe...

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Severity & FluctuationEnergy & Biological RhythmsHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 17, 2023
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Overcoming negative image of one's self, caused by stuttering?

Overcoming negative image of one's self, caused by stuttering? Hello, Some days I just seem to block on every word. I have no idea why, and when these days come around it just drops my mood for an e...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2023
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Hey bud I’m 22 too, every word you said is the same for me, it's really hard for us we really don't know what to do or where to go, it's like we got lost somewhere...

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Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2023
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If I can't make my stutter disappear completely then I see no point in trying anymore......

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Helplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterNov 15, 2023
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Gets frustrating sometimes

Gets frustrating sometimes I’m not one to get mad at something I can’t control. But seeing how the people around me can speak freely without a second thought irritates me sometimes. I know it’s all ju...

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Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 15, 2023
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Im exhausted

Im exhausted I dont know what else to say but im tired. Im tired of having to neatpick my words all the time, filtering everything i say. Ive missed out on so many friendships and opportunity because ...

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postr/StutterNov 14, 2023
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Stutter can lead to many things

Stutter can lead to many things I have stutter since a child and it’s very up and down throughout my life. I can never do presentations after getting traumatized from trying to do em. It’s lead to m...

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postr/StutterNov 13, 2023
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normal people usually either deny our disability or see us as half humans

normal people usually either deny our disability or see us as half humans the people in my surroundings are divided into two groups the first see me as a normal human with low self-esteem and confide...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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Dude, this happened to me a few months ago. Met a big donor for the organization I am the director for, as he is a billionaire and is not in town much, and my incompetent talking mechanism of blocks, ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2023
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I'm sorry. It sounds like you have a yeast infection. If you want to live, like you do. do nothing. Have you tried to talk in a class? Did you learn how to control your inhibitions? You are absolutely...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2023
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>*"my theory is that your subconscious has this need to be perfect when you’re expressing yourself"* Exactly! What you are describing is essentially what research considers "**conflict monitoring*...

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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2023
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I still don't believe the ultimate cause to be neurological. There's a physiological factor that somehow contributes to the neurological through our own behavior. Whether that is and what it could be ...

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Neurological & BrainHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 10, 2023
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Do you guys feel the same?

Do you guys feel the same? Hey guys, I have one question. I feel that my opinion has no weight in any area of my life. All that I say all that I know, just disappear when I stutter. No matter how...

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Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2023
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The naming convention is meaningless to you and meaningless to me, as I literally said in the closing paragraph of a comment you replied to: "The types are simply used to describe the manner in which ...

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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2023
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I agree with much of what you have detailed, especially that stuttering is exacerbated by anxiety linked to lack of control. However I think it is important to remember that the underlying aetiology o...

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Genetic & Family FactorsStress & Fight/FlightHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2023
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In my opinion: I think that stuttering-like disfluencies require a certain belief \[convincing oneself\] \[self-imposing demands\], which could play a critical and likely necessary role in the manife...

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