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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2022
14 points

I also have had some struggle in terms of ✨sexual relations✨ when I’ve gone to gay bars and such, people either tend to look at me like I’m some crazy dude or like it’s super adorable like my stutter ...

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Dating & RomanceStigma & BullyingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
1 points

I’m sorry you’re having this conflict. Relationships can work when you have a stutter; with the right person. If this individual will not respect you over a thing you cannot control, then she is not w...

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commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
3 points

I’m a bit younger than you, just turned 20 a month ago. I’ve stuttered since I was 8 years old and I have the kind of stutter where my who body shakes and my face twitches. I use to deal with it in u...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2022
1 points

Can I ask how you met your wife/if you adjusted your socializing because of your stutter (ie did you act extroverted while stuttering confidently, or were you generally quiet but took time to speak wi...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2022
9 points

You're overthinking way too much. I'm a stuterrur for 40 yrs with a family of 4 kids. Life get soo busy at times that i don't even remember i stutter. Just go for it. Time heals all....

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commentr/StutterJun 4, 2022
2 points

Try to speak as fluently as you can. But don't be afraid to be who you are. Wether that is being quiet, or a conversation starter. Those who see you for who you are, and not what you are will be your ...

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commentr/StutterJun 4, 2022
1 points

I'm still a teenager, so not ready to get married or anything, but I still want to be in a relationship. My grandad who also has a very bad stutter always tells me he never talked to girls until his m...

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Dating & RomanceSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2022
2 points

I don't know how old you are. I'm 31. Severe stutterer since age 5. I thought no girl should be attracted to me because of how broken I am. But then in my mid 20s and especially at 30 girls became int...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & RomanceHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
1 points

Its really hard to face that situation but don't ignore her . Text her until your stutter improves . I have lost someone because at that time I used to chat her but always ignore her sugg...

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Dating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
1 points

I started talking to a girl through messenger She accepted my stutter...

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commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
1 points

Honestly bro you just have to do it, you never really make progress if you’re afraid to get out of your comfort zone. And from personal experiences I’ve never really had a girl say anything negative a...

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Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
2 points

Bro don’t think too hard on this. BELIEVE ME, IF SHE’S A GOOD GIRL, THEN SHE WILL NEVER THINK LESS OF YOU. If she gets uncomfortable with your stutter, then she’s definitely not worth it....

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commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
3 points

No. Talk to her in person. You are to be an active participant in life. I feel like I'm reading myself here. I'm a severe stutterer. I know you might not be ready for this, but you absolutely need t...

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commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
2 points

I can't hide my stutter, it's pretty severe. The problem is just that I can't really talk. I feel like to have good conversations and really get to know each other there's no way to do that in person....

Speech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
2 points

Hm maybe take some time to step back and focus on improving your speech, as frustrating as that might be. You can still text her a lot but try and work on that so you can talk to her in person with mo...

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commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
2 points

I've known her since I was a kid so we're already friends and she already knows I stutter (it's not something I can really hide). My speech is really bad right now and I just find talking really diffi...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
24 points

Ah you can pursue her but you will inevitably need to talk to her in person for a proper relationship. I’d just be straight up with her about your stutter. If she doesn’t like it well you saved yourse...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2022
5 points

Dude I have a very bad stutter since I could remember. Sometimes better sometimes worse. A girl that truely likes you, will never make fun of you for that. We all have flaws so don’t worry about...

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2022
1 points

I’ve never had a girl tell me that before, you’re lucky bro, Same here though, I just don’t find stuttering normal in the real world in such cases of your favorite music artist, tv shows, commercials,...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2022
2 points

Well I’d say yes to some of your questions. However, i did use to go to gym but that doesn’t really helped me. I would try to do cardio as much as i can though. As for other things, I don’t really c...

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