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postr/StutterMar 18, 2024
13 points

Anyone else makes themselves sound dumb to make it through a coversation without stuttering?

Anyone else makes themselves sound dumb to make it through a coversation without stuttering? For example when I'm talking to people in English which is not my first language, I'd often sound like I s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2024
2 points

I've been in for 17 years. In my experience, no one cares; especially true if you show it doesn't bother you....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 18, 2024
22 points

I'm tired of my stutter, and I feel like giving up

I'm tired of my stutter, and I feel like giving up I'm 30M and have been a stutterer since I was 11. There have been phases of good fluency in my stutter over the years, but to cut it short, I'm not c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2024
1 points

I am currently in the US Air Force and I have a stutter. Nobody really seems to care and I haven’t really encountered any bad experiences because of it. But I will say that there are a lot of assholes...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMar 17, 2024
9 points

A career in the military

A career in the military Hello all i hope everyone is well. I have been contemplating joining the british army for a few years now but to be honest my stutter is holding me back. I am worried that i ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 16, 2024
8 points

How long did you get a job after graduation?

How long did you get a job after graduation? When I graduated college, it took me about 5 months to find my 1st job. I worked for 5 companies already and never disclosed my stutter to them. My stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
postr/StutterMar 16, 2024
1 points

How long did you get a job?

How long did you get a job? I worked for 5 companies already and never disclosed my stutter to them. My stutter is mild but it gets worse in some days like when I overslept or I lack sleep. Sometimes...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
postr/StutterMar 16, 2024
32 points

I can’t say my name sometimes because of my stammer

I can’t say my name sometimes because of my stammer I have a covert stammer so can hide my stammer a lot of the time. However, when I try to say my name sometimes or try to explain what I do for work,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes+1 more
postr/StutterMar 15, 2024
3 points

Disability Tax Credit (DTC) in Canada

Disability Tax Credit (DTC) in Canada I applied for the DTC here in Canada last June due to my significant stutter. The Canada Revenue Agency (CRA) gave me the run around. Weekly calls, forms being se...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationAccess & Rights
postr/StutterMar 14, 2024
33 points

Positivity to you all

Positivity to you all As I go through old photos to prep for my mom’s funeral, I Iook through all the facades I’ve put on over the years. Don’t hide who you are, don’t spend years being ashamed as I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMar 13, 2024
10 points

State of Blocking

State of Blocking When I fear an upcoming block I enter on blocking state. What I mean with this is my mind and body prepares for the block. I know I will block. I can feel it on my body. I can read ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterMar 13, 2024
33 points

Somethings you just never get over

Somethings you just never get over I'm 36 and have stuttered for my entire life that I can remember. One thing I can never get over is the impatience in some people, they sigh, they start talking to a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterMar 12, 2024
6 points

Eye contact, Stuttering and Dating.

Eye contact, Stuttering and Dating. I struggle maintaining eye contact with people when i'm speaking, especially when i start to stutter. Sometimes they look away and it makes me feel bad. What trigge...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterMar 12, 2024
11 points

Mom of teenage mild stutterer / blocker (M/17) trying to help and not make things worse

Mom of teenage mild stutterer / blocker (M/17) trying to help and not make things worse Hello! I have found other Reddit communities helpful for other purposes and am hopeful of finding a supportive ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterMar 12, 2024
5 points

people with severe stutter, how do you managed get a job?

people with severe stutter, how do you managed get a job? I am thinking of sending the cv in a physical letter to several stores, because applying online there are less chances, do you think that woul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 11, 2024
6 points

Any other stutterers trying to work in the IT career field?

Any other stutterers trying to work in the IT career field? I spent a while getting my A+ certification with which I found a job in the career which was a help desk type job where you (rightfully i g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 11, 2024
11 points

How do you manage your stutter while giving a presentation?

How do you manage your stutter while giving a presentation? Hi everyone. I have had a stutter since childhood and still struggle with it from time to time. I reached a point where it is mostly managa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+1 more
postr/StutterMar 10, 2024
13 points

Suttering is ruining my life and giving me anxiety.

Suttering is ruining my life and giving me anxiety. I have have had stuttering problems since a child and it has affected my life. Im afraid to talk to people, make phone calls, order food and many ot...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
postr/StutterMar 9, 2024
15 points

Had anyone ever had to talk to the police as a stutterer? I

Had anyone ever had to talk to the police as a stutterer? I I have had my run ins with the cops, usually traffic violations and some paraphernalia charge like 10 years ago...whatever. Anyway, when th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
8 points

This is because we hold ourselves back when around others. When we are on our own we don’t do this. Dm me...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution