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postr/StutterApr 4, 2025
17 points

Not The Best

Not The Best hi all! 20/F. i'm a college student and i secured a job as a medical scribe back in january. it took them a full month with no contact with me to begin my online training (which lasted on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 4, 2025
32 points

Dating as a male stutterer

Dating as a male stutterer Hi, I’d like to talk with you about your experience as a stutterer, because for me it’s been a complete disaster. I’m specifically looking for input from men only, since I b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 4, 2025
15 points

I’m going to fucking crash out

I’m going to fucking crash out I'm not even a complete introvert, I am a social person to some extent but for some reason my stuttering, which developed in the past few years and was quite minimal, as...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterApr 3, 2025
7 points

How do I become a more talkative person?

How do I become a more talkative person? I'm generally a pretty quiet person and I lowkey cannot stand it. I always feel so weird for being quiet but at the same time I don't really know what to talk ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2025
1 points

If it's to get a word out then it sounds like an avoidance behavior. It's something you learned to do, consciously or subconsciously because at some point it helped you get a word out. To each their o...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2025
1 points

I talk with my hands a lot! Subconsciously, I think it makes me think that it takes some of the focus away from my face in case I stumble a bit....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2025
2 points

Not really a single word but "c" like in "cat" and p in whatever word. I hate these sounds. For a moment I've had this technique to let out air while saying them so it came off smoother. It worked fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
postr/StutterApr 3, 2025
2 points

Unexpected “narration/demonstration” & FREAKING out

Unexpected “narration/demonstration” & FREAKING out hi y’all, i have to give a very unexpected narration of my upcoming lab experiment and this is my worst effing nightmare!!! For context i got surger...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2025
4 points

It's extremely tiring to stutter. You should try not to! 🤪 Jk, I just had a final interview for a job I really wanted. Two days have passed and I'm still physically and mentally exhausted from all th...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Energy & Biological RhythmsAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2025
3 points

One of the things I've noticed is my mood will have something to do with how I speak. I know we can't always just turn this on before speaking, but if before work or school, if you have certain music ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & Breathing+2 more
postr/StutterApr 3, 2025
36 points

Tired

Tired 20 (f) and I’m just so tired of having to live with this. Not to be all pessimistic and dramatic but my speech is really something that has consumed my life and it’s become so exhausting. I’m at...

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commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
1 points

I do this too! I’m not sure what to call it but it’s weird cause I know what I want to say, my brain just doesn’t tell my mouth. It doesn’t happen too frequently but it’s very noticeable when it does...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionLoss of Control
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
2 points

I’ve gone through the same, got a job as a sales rep at a phone carrier company and talking and helping your customers makes you loose the fear to talk with strangers and eventually my voice just flow...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterApr 2, 2025
9 points

Hey there i stutter i am 15 year old

Hey there i stutter i am 15 year old It all started when i was 5 or 6 and it never stoped. i have been bullied my whole life by my friends family and relatives too I and when i was 10 we moved to a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/stutteringApr 2, 2025
2 points

Hey, fellow stutterer here. Whenever I got my stutter it was around 7 years old, I understand the look of people changing the subject to talk about your stutter very well. I’m 25 now and I still stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyFriendships & Belonging+1 more
postr/StopStutterApr 2, 2025
2 points

Breaking the Stuttering Habit Chain

Breaking the Stuttering Habit Chain As someone who used to stutter, I’ve realized that it’s often not just about the words we fear saying, but the habit chain we go through. We hesitate, think of the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2025
1 points

For the longest I avoided almost all speaking situations, honestly without even realizing it. This year I think I had had enough and began challenging myself everyday to speak in difficult speaking si...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationQuality of Life+1 more
postr/StutterApr 2, 2025
27 points

I felt humiliated & defeated at work today. What do I do?

I felt humiliated & defeated at work today. What do I do? This story has many layers but I’m going to try to make it as clear & concise as possible; So I 27M have a pretty obvious/severe from time to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/stutteringApr 1, 2025
3 points

i’m struggling over here 😭

i’m struggling over here 😭 hi! my name is aubrey, i am 16 years old, and i’ve been struggling with my stutter for quite some time now. i can’t remember the exact age of when i got, but i got it prett...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family Factors+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2025
3 points

Same with me about the severe stuttering. I even manage to have a career in law enforcement and am now a CPS social worker. What helped me was just speaking a lot more in public. Police academy was to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career