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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2022
3 points

I’m glad that’s the case for you now! I remember working at a jimmy johns when I was younger and while working the register I had a customer who stuttered come up to order, once he realized I stuttere...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2022
1 points

Most of the time I do! They usually apologize when I tell them, sometimes I’ll just laugh it off though...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2022
2 points

M is a hard letter for you *because* it’s starts your name. When someone says that, inform them what is going on for you. Otherwise, they’ll never know...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2022
2 points

I’ve only had someone mock me once for it, and immediately turned to them that it’s a big deal for me and them mocking me for it was undoing all the hard work that my speech therapist put into it. The...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Disclosure & Telling OthersStigma & BullyingTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2022
1 points

Christ I get that all the time. However I’ve found that often just responding you have a stutter makes them apologise profusely. I don’t do it all the time but I always feel much better when I do and ...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
1 points

You know, I was also a nurse many moons ago. I always said DX because I couldn’t say diagnosis. If someone asked, I’d say it’s hard for me to say because of my speech. Everyone was like…..okay....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
2 points

The reason I say I can't really disclose it during work is because I take emergency calls and its a waste of time that I don't have to disclose to the caller and/or the operator. Even at that, I've d...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
2 points

Disclosing helped me go from being without heat for 3 days bc of fear of the phone - to only worrying about my stutter once every 3 days. It took about a month. I was at mechanic today, and they ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
3 points

People laugh bc they do not understand. At all. If they knew it was painful (emotionally and physically), and you struggled with it, most people would be horrified at thought of laughing. Start by...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
3 points

I find that I am much more fluent with people I meet, before they either notice I stutter, or I tell them. With me, once the cat is out of the bag, the stutter is too....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
7 points

You’re right!, it’s important for students to learn about/respect people with differences. I’ve always figured if I became one I’d mention it the first day, so everyone knows about it upfront....

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
9 points

I’m a teacher and if you disclose to the kids, your become more fluent over time. Plus, they learn authentically about respecting people with differences....

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2022
6 points

For two prior jobs I was a supervisor over a team of roughly 5 people, give or take. The latest position I was on the phones, a LOT. And if there’s one thing stutterers have in common, it’s we all hat...

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2022
6 points

I get it, We all want fluency. We should continue to work on the things we can control like our thoughts and emotions, our self talk and our breathing and posture. Read books, educate yourself. Findi...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingDisclosure & Telling OthersVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2022
4 points

Stutter, and any words with s and then a consonant i hate meeting new people cause i have to explain that i have stutter but i can never get the word out...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2022
10 points

ME TOO. sometimes i go so far to make up a fake name if i know i'll never see the person again :/...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2022
2 points

The sad truth is that most people only understand stuttering as a simple repetition glitch often associated w nervousness. (Even many professionals have similar incorrect understanding). disclosing ...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2022
2 points

If I'm speaking to someone new, I always tell them first off that I have a stammer. It seems to clear the air so that they know what's expected....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2022
2 points

I agree with asking. My husband stutters, and he does appreciate people being told in advance, but how it’s done matters. He would definitely prefer that it be disclosed in private, rather than as som...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2022
2 points

I normal say my name the best I can and if I stutter I say I can spell it for you if you didn’t understand...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others