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It is unappealing to people but the alternative would be silent blocking in their face for 30 seconds or more which seems more unappealing so the phone thing feels like the reasonable choice to me. I’...

I think using the phone could be interpreted as not “owning” your stutter and be initially unappealing to girls and other people you meet for the first time. If your stutter is really severe especiall...

Being up front and honest are solid first steps, but the phone thing is a bit much (but I get the idea, and I think it’s a clever approach). I can attest at 35 that most women aren’t gonna lose inter...

Another issue is the fact that fluid speakers only stutter when they are nervous or lack confidence, so they assume I am nervous. This makes it practically impossible to get a customer service job and...

Self-disclosure is confidence building, at least for me, so long as it's stated in a matter-of-fact way and I'm not apologetic. [The Washington Post](https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/soloish/wp/201...

Stutter filters out those who you don't really want to date... So it's all good 🙂...

I would disclose it at the beginning of the date: it frees you from performance anxiety and you can make it cute by saying I stutter more in front of cupe girls\boys...

If you start stuttering, look her in the eyes and say her beauty takes your speech away, or you are excited to be near her. Practice it though, don't stutter as it ruins the line. Also don't stutter ...

I met all my previous girlfriends and my first wife online. I never said about my stuttering. And honestly, I almost don’t stutter with girls 😂 But if you feel nervous about it, just tell it. For cl...

If you are primarily focused on maximizing the chances of starting a relationship with a specific girl, it may be best not to bring up your stuttering unless she asks about it. On the other hand, if y...

Ya that’s what I used to do in my Tinder days. I’d always let them know before I got on the phone or met them in person....

I think that works too. I havent dated in a long time, so I never used tinder. I used to put that I stuttered on the bottom of my dating profile. Worked for my wife!...

Advice needed: Going on a tinder date, should I disclose my stutter up front?

Advice needed: Going on a tinder date, should I disclose my stutter up front? Hi everyone, so I am going on what is probably my first date and since the girl does not know that I stutter, I am wonde...

One of the first time I disclosed my stutter it was to this really cute girl that I kind of had a crush on. She told me she thought my stutter was hot. Agreed, if she likes you for all of who you are...

I put the fact that I stuttered on the bottom of my dating profile. My now-wife loved it...

Online is always best to try to form a connection first because face to face, you can get written off pretty quick when you open your mouth same as when girls see that you’re not 6”1....

I have a pretty bad stutter and I've been w an amazing girl for 2 years now and and she finds it cute. The answer is there isn't anyone you have to go out of your way to try and stop stuttering for. ...

I’ve only recently just started realizing that people might see it as endearing. I’ve always been treated really well by people in my circles/workplaces, but always thought it was because I was just a...

It’s really not bad. Most woman don’t care if you stutter. The ones that do aren’t worth it. I would say I have a moderate to severe stutter. I’ve had numerous girlfriends and I am in a relationship r...

We were just talking about this in our stuttering community - feel free to join for free using the link in my profile. For context, it's important to disclose your stutter if it's someone you want to ...