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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
5 points

This asshole likely would have made a scene regardless of who was helping them. Also, blocks can be very unnerving/confusing/concerning to a listener who has no clue why you are pausing in odd places...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling OthersFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterMar 18, 2023
32 points

So I’m new here..

So I’m new here.. Hello everyone, I’m 20yo male with huge stutter. I found out about this subreddit after frustrating oral exam, im a med student and had never taken an oral exam and got really nervou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2023
2 points

“Gl” and “Cl” words still get me to this day. Also introducing myself to people and saying my name. But i do have alternate words that bail me out. For example I’ll say instead of “glass” I’ll say “se...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 15, 2023
2 points

Graduate School (MSF) Interviews coming up soon. Afraid of being rejected because of my stutter...

Graduate School (MSF) Interviews coming up soon. Afraid of being rejected because of my stutter... I am applying to five competitive Masters in Finance programs in the US that have great job placement...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterMar 15, 2023
17 points

Bad experience through immigration

Bad experience through immigration Hi all, I just landed in the US and had a terrible experience when going through the US border. Any interaction I have with law enforcement or with someone who has ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2023
1 points

I don't say memorial a lot (do you..? 😅) but I stutter at "my mom" a lot too...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesExperiential Association
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2023
2 points

I will always try and introduce myself first so I can go HHHHHhhhhhhiiiii my name is Soloemilia in one breath. But then oh my God when people are like oh I’m sorry what did you say? It’s like— go to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2023
0 points

I think we are talking about different things, because yes I am focused on saying specific words. Plus, in my experience people can wait very long in real life situations. But thank you for your feedb...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2023
2 points

You stutter on your name for two reasons. First, you can’t substitute another word for it. Second, more importantly, when do you actually say your name? With new people/meeting people, when the stakes...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesPropositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2023
2 points

I freeze and find it very hard to open my mouth when I start a sentence while doing eye contact. I usually wait till that eye contact is broken before saying a long sentence. In this case, physically...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2023
1 points

Oh, generally no, my name starts with a d so if I try saying it I can typically get "d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d" out but nothing more...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2023
10 points

>Anyone know why that could be? Great post! You argue that you can't get out specific words in certain situations, like when they ask for your name. **Why is that?** Answer: One point of view is...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterMar 11, 2023
22 points

Anyone else stutter on specific words?

Anyone else stutter on specific words? For me it tends to be: my age, name, phone number, and what high school I went to, and a few other things (mostly self identifying information).... like I can be...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesExperiential Association
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2023
1 points

Indeed, what's the point of having a voice if you can't use it as you want to.. I'm like you, phone calls are a big no no! You would think not been face to face would make it easier, just like tal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2023
10 points

The most common reaction I get when I block trying to say my own name, people say: “Did you forget your own name”?! 🤦🏽‍♂️ That’s when I tell them: “No I have an speech impediment” Makes em feel b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2023
2 points

I struggle with my name when meeting people as well. Some people seem to understand but I get a lot of stares while I struggle with my name....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2023
1 points

I'll be talking great until that time and the minute they ask me for my name, I go mute lol. Sometimes I do surprise myself when I say my name without any struggle but mostly it's the anticipation anx...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2023
1 points

OP I feel you. I used to say I was a different name at the park because I couldn’t get my own name out. I used to throw up before the first little league practice when we had to say our names. I used ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2023
1 points

I too struggle with it, usually I’ll just change my name for reservations at a restaurant or anywhere that doesn’t require your government name lol. T is a letter I struggle with, and unfortunately my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2023
2 points

Yep. Our name isn't something we can go to the thesaurus in our mind and change on the fly, it's part of our core identity, and we're asked it enough growing up and throughout life that I'm thinking t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment